Chris, my fifty-nine year old son left his body peacefully on May 9th 2010 surrounded by his family members. He was diagnosed with lung cancer on April 11th. Over the next month I was there as he went though the denial, fear, anger, bargaining and acceptance stages.
On the soul level he was aware that it was time to leave. Since the first of the year he began disposing of his antique furniture, and the discarding of his personal belongings.
His profession was dealing with antiques and refinishing the prized possessions of clients. At one time he owned two retail stores and loved traveling around the country going to auction sales to find pieces of furniture and art work that he would display in his stores.
Whenever a client brought in a dilapidated piece that was ready for the burn pile, but he or she couldn’t part with it for sentimental reasons he was always able to “find a way or make it” to bring it back to its original beauty.
There were numerous occasions when he would call me to come see a piece that he refinished. I recall one occasion, “Get over here. I just finished a piece that I really had to work at *‘to find a way or make it’, he explained.
When I arrived at his workshop that day he was like a kid. His excitement reminded me of the time when he was three years old and I let him hold a sparkler at a fourth of July neighborhood cookout. His eyes lit up and sparkled as he watched the sparks of energy shoot off the metal stick. Childlike he looked up at me so we
could share this WOW experience together.
He had that same look as he stood there that day watching and waiting for my response to his workmanship. I usually showed my approval and delight when the children were small by clapping my hands or yelling “WOW” or “Fantastic.” My memory bank seems to provide me with the special occasions I enjoy re-experiencing. That was one of those times; I shouted Wow, Fantastic, and clapped my hands as he stood laughing.
For the past two-years Chris was semi-retired from refinishing furniture and spent his time helping me with the bookkeeping, editing my stories and mailing out the book orders that I receive daily. I gave him the title of Vice-President of Delta Sciences. As I began spending all my days charting Blueprints for people interested in their life purpose, he began taking over the daily house and yard upkeep. That’s when I gave him the title of A Man Called Friday. The title of another book I wrote about a man that is a Jack of all Trades.
But when it came to playing our nightly game of Canasta things were different. We both used telepathy with each other to get the cards needed to win the game. We always came out even.
During the last several days when Chris was in and out of his body I continued to communicate with him. There were two energies around him. I found their presence comforting.
The last time Chris’s son, Asa brought him to the Center, Chris sat in the rocking chair across for my recliner where we usually sit to “Solve world problems” which I titled our chats. That day he confided in me, “Mother, I’m ready to leave this worn out body but I’ll try to hang on until the 11th to see how this plays out. Be assured I will stay in contact,” were his last words to me before he left that day to get into the car and go back to his place.
Chris found “his way and made it.” He left his body on May 9th, two days before the 11th.
* The poem ‘FIND A WAY OR MAKE IT’ that made such an indelible impression on him; I recited to my children as they were growing up. I had to memorize it when I was in the 7th grade attending a Catholic school taught by nuns. Sister Alberta assigned us the task to memorize it on our first day. During the school year she would choose one of us to stand up and repeat the poem and explain what it meant to us. If we did not repeat verbatim we were given a ruler chastising in front of the class. The Poem:
There was a noble Roman in Rome’s imperiled days
Who heard a coward croaker before the castle say
“They are safe in such a fortress.
There is no way to shake it.”
“On, on,” exclaimed one hero,
“Let’s find a way or make it.”
Yes, I’ll miss him. I know he is just a thought away but I am confident that we will meet again when I join my Group Soul Family that is gathered in the Seventh dimension.
Helene Hadsell
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i'm so sorry for your lose and i pray the good lord will bring you peace.anita vanlandingham
Dearest Helene: a passing is a major event in our lives and I send love and joy to you as you grieve and move on, as you have assured your fans that you will. Thank you for making your life such an inspiration to so many of us. Blessings. Bonnie Pura
Helene...so sorry for your loss.
Dear,
I am sorry to hear this new. I am writing to express deep sorrow for your loss.
May God bless the soul. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. You have shared all the wonderful moments with us and now we are sharing the burden of this great grief with you. May God bless you.
With love and sympathy,
Sahana
Dear Helene,
I am so very sorry for your loss and touched by your wonderful story. My thoughts are with you during this process. May your loving memories of keep a smile in your heart always...
All the ebst,
Jen
Helene you have such a caring, deep soul. I can hear the love you have for your son in your words. What a beautiful gift you are to us, as to Chris; know that there are many, many hearts loving you back at this time and always.
Breath breathes life eternal.
You are in the air about me.
The circle; no beginning, no end.
When gone not to return as this,
save dreams and memories; look deeper.
All revealed on breath of tides eternal.
- Paula
Our thoughts are with you and your families.What beautiful memories.
I am so very sorry for your loss.
hellen i am so sorry for your loss just rember one thing you can look up to the sky and talk to him anytime you wont he is with god right now and that is the best place in the whole wide world to be your friend virginia harding dont shed a tear becouse ill be hear
Helen is such an incredibly wise and remarkable woman. I'm really sorry for her loss.
Dear,
I am sad to hear this new. I am writing this letter to express deep sorrow for your loss.
You have shared all the wonderful moments with us and now we are sharing the burden of this great grief. May God bless the soul. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With love and sympathy,
Sahana
Helen, I am so very sorry for your loss. My God be with you and your family in your time of need, and all the days of your life. It sounds like you had a wonderful relationship with your son and that is very special and something that will stay with you forever.
I am real sorry to here about your son. i am sure he was a good man. i bet it is hard right now but i bet he would want you to be strong for him. be good mom hang in there. i love you and will see you soon. because life is fast to fast. once again i am sorry to here about your son. your friend kelly.
Mrs. Hadsell,
One of my favorite quotes is, "Every flower that grows has an Angel that bends over it and whispers, "Grow, Grow, Grow". I am sure your son was a big juicy ROSE! I am sending you all the love that I have in my heart, that yours may feel it and be comforted. I lost my Mom Dec. 15, 2009 to Cancer as well. I was able to write about it for the first time, yesterday. With Love And Respect, Wendy Branchfield
hellan i am so sorry for your loss rember one thing sweety he is with god right know and that is the best place to be just look up to the sky and talk to him he will hear you dont shed a tear becouse ill be hear your friend virginia harding
Helen, I am so sorry for your loss. It sounds like you had a wonderful relationship with your son and that is something that will stay with you forever. May God be with you and your family. My deepest condolences.
hellan i am so sorry for your loss rember one thing sweety you can always look up to the sky and say hi he is with god right know and thats the best place to be dont shed a tear becouse ill be hear virginia harding
Dear Helene,
No doubt this must be a challenging time for you mourning the passing on of your son (Chris)to the great beyond.
May the Lord grant you the strength to bear this irreparable loss. May Chris' soul rest in perfect peace.
I wanted to say my family is so sorry for your loss,now he is at piece with love all around him.
HELLO HELENE, GREG MOVERLEY HERE. KATE HAS TOLD ME OF YOUR SAD LOSS OF YOUR SON CHRIS. I AM VERY SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS, & CAN IDENTIFY BECAUSE I LOST MY FATHER 18 MONTHS AGO. MY MOTHER IS ALSO GONE, BUT I TAKE COMFORT AS YOU WILL THAT YOUR SON IS IN EXCELLENT HANDS ! IM SURE YOU HAVE EXCELLENT SUPPORT FROM FRIENDS & FAMILY. WISHING YOU PEACE & GOODWILL YOUR FRIEND GREGORY MOVERLEY. HUGS.
I am so sorry about your loss...your son Chris.Time heals all wounds ...you still have the hurt but it's is just a little bit more tolerable.
SINCERELY
STEVE
Hi Helene:
I am so sorry to hear the news about your son. I am always at loss when I hear about freinds relatives passing on. I am always thinking there are not enough words to offer confort for the ones they are left behind.
The only thought is that we had enjoy their company, we had seen them thru good and bad.
Helen my sincere simphaty for you and your family for the loss of your son.
Sincre condolences Helene and to your family and friends who knew Chris. I cannot imagine what it would be like to lose my son. You are in my thoughts.
I'm so sorry to read about your loss. Must have been a hard Mother's Day for you. Many prayers and positive energy to your entire family.
Helene, I am soooo sorry to hear about your son, but like, mom, he is now only a thought away and moving on to another task in the afterlife. You've helped me quite a bit with your books, chatting, and stories. Now: Here's a big hug for you!!
Helene
I am sorry for the passing of your son. My prayers are with you at this time.
I can't imagine what it is like to loose a child but my condolences are with you.
Helene,
I'm sorry to hear of your son's passing from this earth. It sounds like the two of you shared a wonderful life together. Thank you for sharing his story. And thank you for all that you do for all of us.
Kim S
My heartfelt sympathy to Helene and the entire family. I know how difficult it is to lose a child , regardless of how old that child is.
You have my condolences.
Prayers be sent from the Oliveira Family.
Please accept my deep condolences and expressions of sympathy for your dear son. I will include you all in my daily prayers. I'm sure he has passed to a higher place. I have just returned from seeing the Shroud of Turin. I keep in mind the Lord triumphed over all the torture and injustice done to Him. You will triumph also by your son's loving care for you from above.
blessings and peace to you as you and your family adjust to Chris' transition. God is with you...but you already knew that...
Love and peace to you and your family Helene. Thank you for allowing us a glimpse into your beautiful relationship with Chris. Namaste.
Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on the snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the mornings hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush,
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
for I am not there,
I did not die.
~Author Unknown
Dear Helene, You two were so close in love, emotions and mind. Surely you will receive his comforting presence in your grief. Those memories you shared plus numerous others are a way to ease the lonelyness, I found. i ask blessings of comfort and love to you and your family.
In loving and caring, Francine XXO
Love and peace to you and your family Helene. Thank you for sharing your beautiful relationship with Chris. Namaste, Fran
Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on the snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the mornings hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush,
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
for I am not there,
I did not die.
~Author Unknown
sorrey cathy past away on 3/13/2010
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May you find solace in the abundance of your life within your spiritual and religious center, and with family and friends. You have written a wonderful eulogy for your son; I know he was beloved. I imagine losing a child to be one of life's most painful journeys; I know my grandmother was not strong enough to survive hers.
My deepest condolences.
Helene, I am sorry for your loss. Your faith is so strong, it brings strength to the rest of us.
I am very sorry for the loss of your son on this earthly plane. Michele Persons
condoleances.....may God give you peace in the soul
I am with you in mind and offer you my sincere sympathies. Your son is now an angel watching over you
Helene,
You are blessed to have had such a wonderful connection with your son. He was a blessing as are all our children young and old. You will be blessed further with your connection in so many ways. Keep your ears and eyes open for the signs because he will be there. My love and blessings are out to you for strength during this time. Smile in knowing that you had such a wonderful bond.
Lisa
Very saddened to hear of the loss of your son in your life, Helene. i had the good fortune of being able to speak to you by telephone a dozen years or so ago.
My prayers are aligned with yours...
Panache
Helene,
You have my deepest sympathies in the death of your son. I know that the good Lord will be with you in your troubled time of need.
May God and His Son Jesus Christ be with you.
Dear Helene: I am sending prayers and loving, positive thoughts across the miles to you, to Asa, and to all who knew and loved Chris. May all your memories of your beloved son enfold you like a soft blanket and comfort you, until you meet again in spirit.
I'm very sorry to hear of your losse, be strong my thoughts are with you.
Dear Helene, I'm so sorry to hear about your son. May the Lord bless his soul, give you courage and the faith that he is in a better place.
You are in my prayers and I'm sure Chris is praying for you as well.
God bless.
Carmen
Sorry to hear of your son's passing. He was Loved by all he ever met in his life. He Loves you very much and we hope you know he is watching over you on your right shoulder which he is ready to listen when you need to say some good things that he brought you in your Loving life. always think of your son's smile for this will help you heal. Blessings Claudine
A loss of child is the most difficult thing to deal with as a mother, my deepest condolences to you. I am certain that you will get through this sad moment because your are strong and have a positive outlook on life. Be comforted with the fact that the cherished memories of him will always in your heart.
Kalinde
from Namibia
My sincere sympathy for your family's loss. May God be with you.
What a lovely evocation of your son, Helene! Thank you. I too believe the dead are close - at least for a while before they get busy with new things. My thoughts are with you at this time.
Helen, my condolences to you on the departure of your son from this physical plane. And my admiration for how well you seem to be taking it. I want to seize the opportunity to thank you for sharing your success stories with us, it has given me hope and, hopefully when I fully understand it I will manage to actually win some prize somewhere. Once again, thank you for having touched my life. Greetings from Mexico.
Thank you Helene for the gift of sharing with us who your son is and your stories of being his mom. Your thoughts are with me.
Carolyn
Ottawa Ontario Canada
my dear Helene be confident he has stepped into the light where he belongs,Blessings, mom of 4
Hi Helene,
I send you love at this time, and you can rest assure, your son is only a thought away.
You will have beautiful and fond memories to carry you through the rest of your life.
Your Post was heart felt.
May God be with you, and give you strength to carry on your life's path.
Many Comforting Blessings,
Yvonne Skudder
sadness,joy,and love all wrapped into wonderful commentary and memories of a life continuing on it's journey to forever.
May God continue to comfort you during this time of your lost
Many thoughts came to mind, when I read about your son Chris, I prayed a prayer asking God to comfort you by using everyone. My dear husband of 40 years went on March 29th to COPD lung related illness. When I read what your Chris did. We have to all work on getting rid of the use of chemicals, that ruin lungs. So here's to asking all to Go Green. My Dad died when he was 59, I thought it was the end of the world. May Chris memories be your comfort .
Sorry for your loss Helene. I believe you are correct. We will all meet again. Peace and strength to you.
Dear Helene,
I am total overwhelmend with sadness, when I read your story..... Even I had left several times my body and know there is no death at all. I feel, he is comming back soon as a other person.....
Love Rudi
Dear Helen,
I wish I can communicate with my children they way u did with you son and continue doing.
Heartfelt feelings
Christina
Helene I Got an email from Kate Roberts about the loss of your son. I am so sorry to hear that he passed away my thoughts and prayers will be with you and may God comfort you in a way that only he can. You are a terrific person in my book and I hope to one day to be able to do the things you can do.
With All My LOve
Brenda Kiger
Dear Helen
My deeply condolences. It is not right to live longer than your child.
But it's good to believe in a reunation between him and you gives a great comfort.
I wish you strength and love to keep going..........
with love
Desiree
I am sorry for your loss, my heartfelt sympathies to you and your family
I send my highest thoughts and love to you and your family. I am inspired by your grace and dignity and your work is helping me to live a richer life on all levels.
My condolences, Robin Richardson
The loss of a loved one is hard! But God had it planned from the start., for when he would call your son home to wheel the sword of faith. The one that protects us from evil. He is also is to help guide us to the comfort of Gods arms. I know that you feel the all to big of a hole left and know millions will feel the hole he left. I know it will be hard to keep your head up and not feel sorrow, but now he is helping from above and be proud that he suffered just Like Jesus did for us. And now he can help by being a gaurdian angel for more people than we can count. He will always be near to help you when you need it the most. and I know he wouldn't want you to be sad ,but happy for him and his new task ahead. My love goes out to you and know from my heart I have lost all my family and out live them all except for the family God has made. Such as dear friends pets . one persons life touches more than the people the have met. Dave
I am sure you know he is ONE with God now just as we all are ,even in this life.
I hope Chis keeps in contact with you ,and that you share with the rest of us.
Dear Helen,
This is to say how sorry I am to hear the news of the departure of your son. Please accept my sincere condoleances - I pray that the Almighty God will give you the strength and wisdom that you need to go through this trying period. To God be all the glory. Amen.
Charlotte Onyeije, Mantes la Ville
that is very beautiful, helene... i know you are in contact and i send blessings to you! much love, zeke
Heartfelt Prayers to you in the recent loss of your beloved son. May God bring comfort and peace to you in the days that lie ahead. It is never easy to say goodbye to a precious loved one. I, too, lost my son twelve short years ago this coming July. He was just twenty-two years old when he died in a sudden death automobile accident that also took the lives of two of his friends. My final goodbye to him was through an earlier phone call he made to me that same evening. Little did I know it would be the last time we would ever speak.
I continue to miss him like crazy. His birthday is May 12th..and.he was my Mother's Day gift from the day he was born and will always continue to be.
God's Blessings to you!
Dear Helene,
May comfort find you today. Bodies can be temples or prisons. My son, at twenty-five, was also ill and left his prison 5 years ago. But I know his spirit lives on and, on occasion, is very close to me, to encourage me. Your son sounds like a wonderful, energetic, alive soul. I'm sure his daily presence will be missed. I send out comfort and peace to you today.
Clair
I don't the pain of losing a child, but I do know the pain of losing my dad, sister and mom, all in a 16 month period. Dad was 92, Mom 90, my sister, 62. My sister fought a 3 year battle with cancer.
God bless you and may the good Lord hold you in His arms at this time.
Dear Helene,
May all the sweet memories you share with your son give you the strength to carry on until you get together again. My deepest sympathy. Take care.
Genny
My prayers are with you to help you "Make it."
Dear Helene;
Sincerest sympathies on the passing of your beloved son. It is impossible not to see the glory of his life since he loved you dearly and was always willing to help others.
My prayer is that God will hold your hand securely and walk you serenely through this period of grief and loss.
Clarence
so sorry for your loss, he is now with you in spirit...
sincere condolences
your story about the 3 year old with the sparkler was so vivid warm and beautiful it made me cry
Manda
SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS...MAY GODS LOVE GUIDE EACH AND EVERYDAY..
LOIS
Helene, I am so sorry about your loss. Your beautiful words and your heart full of peace and love are so touching and uplifting. May God continue to use you and bless you in all ways. Renee-Charleston,S.C,
Ho!! Dear
He is in peace and in no pain, He is a free free angel bringing harmony to you eking heart
your toughs of love give him permission to move on.
Love
God be with you
my condolences...Chris sounded like an amazing person.
Hi Helene,
I am really sorry about your lost. I have a son also and the thought of losing him would be unbearable. May God be with you and help you through your sorrow. May you son RIP. God bless!
Dear Helene & family, You have my sympathy upon hearing of the death of your son. What a wonderful life you described to us all! As your daughter wrote, I know all of you will meet again in that dimension. You have shared so much knowledge with us all. I fell like I know you, and share some sadness upon hearing of your son,s departure. Sincerest and best wishes, Linda S. Steinberg
Helene, There are no words other than I am deeply sorry for your loss of your son. May God bless you and yours.
Sally B.
May the joy of his remembrance sustain you throughout
your days.
Richard
My condolences Helene my prayers are with you and your family. I know God will bless and comfort you in this time of need. You are such a blessing to so many people, I know you have been an inspiration to me too.Thank you so much for haring your blesings and talents with us..
May God bless signed Don Norman
So sorry to hear about your son Just remember
"You are loved"
Cheryl
Hi Helene
i'm so sorry to hear you lost your son,you will be in my thoughts and prayers
blessings
You are a remarkable woman who's great strength and wisdom shines brightly. The loss of one's child is an unimaginable grief and I admire the comforting and positive signs you bring to the surface in remembering your son. May you find much comfort in the days ahead.
Dear Helene
My heart goes out to you at this time.
Thank you for writing such a touching memoir for Chris.
Many blessings
Kathleen
It's so nice to read about the relationship Helene had with her son, Chris and to learn of his love and skill with antique furniture. Sounds like he was a helpful, honest kind of person. I also enjoyed hearing about your card games that always ended up even! ha!
My condolences on your families' loss.
Sorry to hear of your son's passing.
I am so sorry for your loss.
I too have sons and they in turn have sons
I would die for them
helene there are no words that i can say that will ease the grief and pain you feel at this loss. but i can tell you that i will keeo you in my thoughts and prayers, for you have been such an inspiration to me. you had 59 years to enjoy your son and i have the feeling you made the most of your time. please know that in time this feeling will graduate into a feeling of thankfulness for what you did have, but that being said there will always be a part of you that misses, loves and wishes for just another time that you could have the chance just to say once more i love you. god bless you in this time kace parlier
So Sorry to hear about your loss.
Nadine Bowes
Coincidently, on April 11th I was getting my head shaved as a fundraiser event. The money was donated for cancer research through The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society. This past March, I also donated to the American Cancer Society as part of my sister's birthday present. Currently, I am organizing a team to participate in a walk for pancreatic cancer in September. This is just to say I believe very strongly that cancer needs to stop taking lives! I am sorry for your loss. May your fond memories of your son remain until the day you meet again.
My dear Helene, I am so sorry for your loss. I am so happy that you know you can stay in touch with your son. Our children are always our babies. My heart hurts for you.I am sending you loving energy from my heart to yours. You have done so much to change my life and I love you, Karen Praksti
Helene,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. May you find peace and joy in the memory of your son's life.
John.
Helene,
I'm so sad for your loss. I just had a phone call from a good friend of mine. His father has died and I have been coming to terms with that loss...
I'm afraid they don't have the connection that you and your son have, so my friend is suffering like you, but without the complete understanding of soul.
I'm not saying it is any easier for you. Even though we might understand, it is still so hard to say goodbuy to those we love.
Wishing you love,
Meryl.
I am so sorry for your loss, please think of him now as being happy and in the arms of Jesus.
Dear Helene,
I read your blog this morning and was deeply touched. Conscious dying is such an incredible -- I guess people would call it a gift, but I think it is a process that is well earned .
I'm sure you two have been together many times on this planet and others but the relationship is still earthbound in the sadness of missing his daily visits.
Much love and all best wishes to you.
Sincerely,
Carol Burland
Helene, this is not only a beautiful and memorable tribute to your son, but to the beautiful and wise soul that you are. We celebrate his life with you even as you are taking this journey into what would be for most of us uncharted waters. ____You have your map and you know the Truth about life, that it doesn't end and you haven't lost him at all.____Thank you for sharing this with us and reminding us what grace and courage really are,__Sandy Abrams
I am happy that you and your son were able to spend his last days together with fond memories. May your days continue to be filled with happy, joyful memories of your time together. Thank you for sharing and may we all find a way to open to a loved ones passing with our heart and spirit. Thank you Helene. Bless you
Helene,
Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. It is comforting to know that we never say goodbye, just see you later.
Helen - I am sorry for your loss. Losing a son is never an easy task to be faced with. I admire the close relationship you had with your son, and I will keep your Family in my thoughts and prayers. God be with you and your Family!
My heart goes out to you Helene. We all miss our loved ones when they have physical characteristics and can be touched and held and seen. Trust that his spirit is still around you and will reuinte with your spirit nightly and when you choose to return home as well.
Helene,
condolences to you and your family may you never have sorrow in your life.
Please accept my sincere condolances. It is hard to lose a child at any age but at least you understand that he is not really gone and only a thought away. It sounds like he had a rich life and a wonderful mother as well. You are in my prayers. Linda from York, PA
O Ideal One!I'd Like to remind you that you once said that any achievement needs 4 factors-1.Select,2.Project,3.Expect and 4.Collect.I'm absolutely sure that your lucky son lived a life of worth.Death isn't the 'END',My GURU His highness Acharya VIDYASAGARji quotes thus:'Death is just a change of dress & address!'I'm unable to believe that YOU require condolence.Energetically we're never disconnected.How can a great mother's son passing away on MOTHER'S DAY be unfortunate?Wishing you a quick emotional harmony.With a saint's selfless love & compassion from a Jain lesser Monk-Dhyansaagarji.
Dear Helene,
I am so sorry for your loss.You must have loved him very much.Chris is in the arms of GOD now.He is in a very happy place,being happy with no more pain.I know you have strong faith as I have.I will be praying for Chris and you.
Love you, Dave.
Helene, You are such a wonderful person and I'm so sorry about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. If you need a friend I'm here.
Helene I am so sorry for your loss. It is so painful to lose a close family member, but as time go on the pain will lessen. But one thing that will not go away is the loving memories that the two of you shared.
My condolences to you, Helene for the loss of your son! Thank you for your wonderful blog that has helped many.
Dear Helene,
I am saddened to hear of Chris' passing. I shall keep you in my thoughts and prayers. How blessed you both were, to be able to have that time together, before he went. Please accept my sincere condolences on your loss.
Sincerely,
Treay Cohen.
Dear Ms Helene Hadsell..Our sincere condolences on the loss of your son Chris...we
understand fully this sad experience, as we have just recently lost our youngest daughter
Louise, she would have been 48 in June...May their souls rest in peace...Line & Geo....
Helene,
My most profound condolences, and My heart goes out to you!
Ed Coorney
My thought and prayers are with you Helen. I love that story, what a precious beautiful son.
God bless you and your family.
Dear Helene,
As he continues to find and make his way, I know a way of healing and comfort finds and makes its way to you and your family. May you all continue to receive the arms of comfort and love you need at this time and always. I claim this for you all and know it to be true and so it is.
Dear Helene,
I am so sorry to hear about your son. I know he will be missed by many. He must have been a very special person because he has you as his Mom. You were in a way kindred spirits meant to be together as you were. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and his whole family.
-Mary
Helene, blessings to you and your family during this time.
I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure you will be hearing from him. GodBless
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"The Buddhist view is that to die a good death, one must have led a good life. The knowledge that death represents the return of the individual life to the great universal life prior to another phenomenal manifestation is a source of splendid strength, rich with compassion and wisdom. As he or she strives to perfect himself by doing good for others, the Buddhist is constantly aware that death is a fulfilling and enriching part of life. For people who believe this, death is not defeat, but a wonderful stimulus to live more vigorously and more meaningfully."
I am fifty-nine years old and will be sixty on May 12th, because of this I feel a connection with your son. I believe your son died a good death because he was surrounded by his family members.
Hi Helene,
Your son seemed like a great and likeable guy. I'm sure your comforted in knowing that you can communicate to Chris when you have the desire. It's also should be comforting in know that Chris knew his life's purpose and completed it well. Sure, your going to miss his physical presense and the help and company he provided. You truely have a great family and Chris will be missed by all. If you ever need somebody to communicate with feel free to write me.
Best Wishes,
Randy
I'm sorry for your "loss'. Even at times like this you still inspire us. God Bless You.
Dear Helene,
I'm so very sorry to hear about your son but I too believe he's in a much better place..Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you..Sharon Reisinger
Helen, thank you so much for sharing Chris with us. You both exhibit an extraordinary insight on life and our relationship with it.
Thank you equally for sharing your fairy tale life experiences with us as well.
You manifest a great peace as well. Peace goes with you.
Cliff
Helene, my condolences but I know that Chris is alive in spirit. You are right when you say that he left his body because the truth is, people don't die. We become spirits. God bless.
Helene:
Condolences to you and your family. My mom just passed away March 11 th. She was 90 years young and sharp as a tack. This was my 1st mothers day without her and very painful. I know she is now safely home with her family and I find pennies when Imost need them. She often told us look for pennies from heaven... as pennies do say on them "in God we trust". Wishing you the peace of the morning light everyday as your son will be smiling on you.
Roxy
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Helene. Love transcends life and Chris is with you eternally. Peace be with you...
God bless you and your family! May you have comfort in knowing the peace your son is having in God's heaven. C.D.B., North Carolina
Dear Helene,
I am so sorry to hear the sad news about your son....
May he rest in peace.
Blessings and love
Sonja Bendz
Denmark
Helene, you are in my thoughts and prayers. It was this month four years ago that my 44 year old son left his body after a car accident. His soul was in touch so please look for a sign from your son. My son left a wife and three daughters. It never gets easy but like you, I found writing about it helped me deal with the grief.
We were blessed to have sons who were 'good guys'. My son Steve was loved by many and his life is honored every year with a Memorial Golf Tournament to raise funds for a scholarship at a local high school.
Make you son's memory worth while to others and his life will never have been without remembering.
Blessings,
Mary McCauley
You know he is in a good place but it is still hard to loose a child on this plane. He was so fortunate to have a mother like you in this space and you were so fortunate to have a child like him. It is such a blessing to know that you will be together again when it is your time to move on. Blessings for both of you and a special hug for you in the celebration of his life. Jane R
Heartfelt condolences.
I'm sorry about your son and i know what it is like to lose a son for i to lost a son but he was only 6 mo old and to this day i still think if he was still here he would be 32 in aug its not easy when you lose a lovedone.So i say to you i'm very sorry you have to go throught this just stay close to your other family and think of how it was when he was around.
Helene
I was sorry to hear of your loss.
I have used your words of encouragement many times in my world, and I hope these words of condolence can reach your heart during this difficult time. I know your son is close by you even though it is another dimension, may his presence continue to provide a comfort in your world.
Dear Helen
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your Son, It is so sad for such a young person to have to even hear the word Cancer; He is with God now in Hevan now and pain free but we here left on earth has to be storng and live with all the good times we had with our loved ones and remember their laughter, their love and know that we will meet again one day and that they still loves us as they look down and will always be with us in our hearts. I hope God will help you get through this and keep you strong. God Bless you and your family, you are all in ours prayers.
Shirley
I send you and your family my love and support. God bless you.
Dear Helene:
I know Chris is still communicating with you and is always with you. I send love and light to you and to the rest of your family. You are surrounded and held in the arms of love.
Sandra
I'm very sorry for your lost. Gob be with you.
Helene, our thoughts and prayers are for you and your family. I hope you take comfort in this thought - "The ones we love never truly leave us".
I really don't know what to say than 'it is well'. I pray that Helene and the rest of the family will be greatly comforted
Great love for you and the departed soul.
Funke
Please know my thoughts are with you, Helene, during this difficult time.
Helene, so sorry to hear about your son's recent passing. He did not suffer to long with the lung cancer. My husband died of lung cancer but he suffered 7 months. My thoughts are with you and yes some day we both will meet our loved ones again.
May peace be with you Ms. Hadsell. Know that you are truly an inspiration to me and I would suppose alot of people who have yet to come forward to tell you.
Dave Wacholtz
I am very sorry for loss. Your son is in a better place, without all the suffering. You know he still in your heart. Be happy. You are blessed.
My dearest Helene, My deepest sympathy for the passing of your son. You as well as I know that they only left the body but their existance is everlasting. Your blog is comforting and peaceful. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. I've always said we can withstand anything if we can live through the passing of one of our children. You have once again reassured me that it can be beautiful. You are thought of and loved by people you don't even know. Bless you always
Belkys from Miami
So very sorry to hear about your lose. Just remember he's with our Heavenly Father now. Watching over you, and longing for the day when you both meet again. MY Sincere Condolences.
Helene,
While you may miss the earthly Chris, you know him on another level that many won't begin to understand, as their grief overtakes them. I want to thank you and your son Chris for you being here to write this wonderful piece about his life. I know we aren't supposed to outlive our children, but things just work out that way sometimes. I think that was the way it was with the two of you...I know you are a very blessed woman indeed...May you get stronger as time goes on...as you know that one day, you will be together again...Bless you and God Keep you well. Sincerely and thoughtfully yours, Charleigh
Dearest Helene....
I'm so sorry for your loss.
"In My Pocket"
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
~Dear Helene..
I'm so sorry for your loss.
"In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Your in my <3 & prayers.
Good Morning Ms. Helene:__I have dealt with dreams of winning the Powerball Lottery for over two (2) years. The dreams are so vivid and real that when I awake, I have to compose myself before I realize it was just a dream. I see myself declared the winner of this lottery, I am at the Lottery Headquarters receiving the check, however I have no recollection of the winning numbers. Usually my dream starts after I have won and I believe so strongly that this is to be. What does this all mean? I want so desperately to win this lottery and have a better life for myself and family. During my dream state, I am so happy, the people and the surroundings are so real. Can you help me with this?
Thank you for your time and God bless!
dear helene,ive known you for such a long time,even now as i write this, all sadness flees,as your chris is in a joyous place, devoid of any and all pain, as we humans know it. my deep love to you, yours in christ, b[ll sheehan
Not necessary that it appears publicly. However, if Ms. Helene could reply at some point and time, I would appreciate it.
Thank you
Yvonne M Young
Thank~you!
Have a great day!
I am saddened to hear of your loss ,but Im sure he is just fine now.Hold on till the day you see him again.
Take care.
My thoughts and prayers are with you...sending hugs for comfort and peace from NY
I hope you can find comfort in your memories of your son and know he is at peace.
Sincerely,
Mary Anne
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
God bless you Helene. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Please know that he awaits your arrival and the grand revival which will follow. As you stated he is just a thought away and forever in your heart. God takes the body but leaves the sweet memories with us to see us through these trying times. May God bless you with HIS infinate comforyt. My prayers are with you
Your friend
DORIS BROWN
Dear Helene My prayers are with you and your family for strength,courage,peace and comfort during this time of transition for everyone. May GOD keep you all in his strong arms and protect you from any unnecessary discomforts. I lost my father in June 2000 with the same enemy. He went peacefully in my arms and was ready to be with the father. Thank you for all you have contributed to the world, I am still learning and passing along the knowledge. Always in my prayers and always loved by me.....Cj Horn
I am so sorry for your loss. Have comfort in knowing that life does not end when the body does...__
My deepest condolenses for your loss, its every mothers night mare to have to bury our own children, Be strong and God bless you.
Maria
Dear Helene..
I'm so sorry for your loss.
"In My Pocket"
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
You & your family.
are in my thoughts & prayers.
With LoVe,
Fee'Fe
Helen, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Death is not easy at any time for any one, yet it is one of those givens in life. I'll keep you in my prayers.
How wonderful to know that your son is just a thought away and that you can still communicate with him. Most of us can't. You are blessed. I am sorry for your loss and for his. People like you and your family are special and have wisdom far beyond the norm. God bless you and keep you.
Hi, my name is Linda , my brother {baby brother just pased last Sunday a week ago with liver , he was 40, my husband has a 10% chance if he can get to the docter for surgery , , so i no the turmiol and sadness , frustration all that goes with it , if i could say or do ant thing in this world to help i would , i can only pray for GOD to be with her and help her , ,ljm.maney@hotmail.com
Hi Helen ,
I am so sorry for your loss .My mom also lost her 49year old 3 weeks ago and I am far away from her ,and only send her my prayers and so am sending the same to you .
I also believe our souls will meet ,like you said.I cannot tell you when the pain will end ,and when the hurting will stop ,but time i pray will ease .
I feel like hugging all the ones who have lost their loved ones and cry .
Please take care of yourself
hello helene and family, I WISH TO OFFER MY CONDOLENCES, ON THE TRANSITION OF YOUR SON. REGARDS FINTAN, FROM DUBLIN, IRELAND.
Having lost my brother, my best friend, a few years ago, age 56, from lung cancer; and having
battled it myself, twice, I can feel your pain....may God be with you.....
Catherine Serre
Hello Helene,
This is Helene Smith from Massachusetts. It is interesting that we both share the same first name and with the same spelling. After reading your blog, I want to offer my condolescence for you loss. I am sure the memories of your son will always be with you as well as the love and the memories of the loving energies was devoted in raising your son.
I have raised 2 children myself and can very well empathizes and understand your path.
My God always be blessing you each day as well as your life's work!
All the best,
Helene Smith
Your experiance has helpped me reduce the fear of moving on.
God Bless
Gary
I am very sorry for your loss. A mother should never have to bury her child. Just know he is at peace now.
Ms. Hadsell (Helene), I was so very sorry to hear about your son. I lost my mother to renal call carcinome (kidney cancer) back in 2004, and I still have trouble holding back tears on days like Mother's Day which just past! I believe your son is with a higher being and the angels now and has found peace. He will always be with you though, because he lives on in your heart and in your spirit. You will be blessed! Lili
Dear Helene,
I am so sorry to hear about your son's passing and I offer you these kind words. I know that he's in a better place now that God has seen fit to call him home. It's always a great loss for any of us that has had to bury a child no matter what age they are, our children was meant to bury us and not the other way around. So, once again I extend my most deepest heart felt condolences to you and your loved ones, may God keep you always, peace be to you.
Andrew Chandler
Helene-
So sorry for your loss.
Gloria
Helen
I am not that good at words of comfort, over time I have learned that spending some thoughts dedicated to you and yours does a better service, suffice to say that I have appreciated your son's being through you the mother and I have now spent a small spritual payment for your presence at the horizon of my daily life by dedicating the I Love You meditation from Joe Vitale to you and your loved ones, may the Core Power hold you in love and protection as always
Chris,
May your soul rest in peace.
Helene you be encouraged. I have never lost a son to death, but a mother, brother, father and sister; therefore, I understand what it is to loose someone you love.
Sincerely,
Dorothy
Dear Helen,
I'm so sorry to hear about your Son passing. I'm glad you two had good memories. God bless You, and I pray that God will confort You. DTake care and God bless you.
Sincerly Yours,
Cherry
Helene,
I pray that you will be able to communicate with your amazing son at a moment's notice as your love for him surrounds the gentleness of his spirit. Know that you are loved and appreciated.
With Love,
Valerie
Although I've never met your son, I'm sure he was a wonderful person and talented person. I am very positive that even though you won't be able to see him, the pictures of him will be looking at you, and he'll always be around you. It really sounds like you had a great relationship.
You are in my prayers.
A heartfelt hug for you and your loved ones.
There are no words, to lose a child must be absolutely terrible. I can hardly bear to think about it..
May the universe fold you into itself, and with all the thoughts of love and caring, help you through this time.
God Bless
Bette
I am glad you have a special bond that will continue always.
Such a precious tribute you have written of Chris. My condolences to you & his family.
To lose a child of any age must be the most devastating event one could imagine, but to have had such a wonderful relationship with your child has to be the most rewarding thing a mother could experience. God Bless You, Helene , and be comforted that you will be reunited one day.
Helene I want to say I am sorry for the loss of your son on this plane of existence. I am not sure of your beliefs but having read your beautiful letter I am confident you shall see him again. He is free now of this world. I just want to pray for you Helene now and I will. Thank you for sharing this experience and the place you are coming from. GOD bless you JB
I am sorry to hear about your loss but only God knows when
it is our time go.
Helene,
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We all know that God is in control and all will be well. Love you, Jo Ann Blackmon (PS I read your Name it and Claim It book many, many years ago.)
When a soul leave's the body, nine out of ten it's coming back. It would'nt be right to get just one shot at this world !
My condolences to our misfortune
Barry.W
Hello Helen, Oh, it just doesn't matter the words I was wanting to come to me, so that I might give you poetic hum'bug. When our love ones pass it's HARD. So let us cry, cry and cry, permission is given and it is good for the soul. We love them so much and we want them with us. I do send Love and Light to you and bless you. Sincerely Pamela
Helene,
I admire the close relationship that you had with your son and am grateful for the peacefulness of his passing. My heart goes out to you and your family during this time.
Blessings,
Karen
My deepest condolences and prayers for you and your family.
I am terribly sorry for your loss. I know not having our loved ones close to touch and hold is difficult but you will be reunited.
Blessings to you and your family.
So sorry for your news - you are right though, each soul has a time to move on. We lost a dear friend last night or this morning, but she had come to the time to move on a week or so ago, so it wasn't unexpected
Dearest Helene,
My Heartfelt Sympathies to You and Yours in Chris' Bittersweet passage.
As a hospice nurse I understand the Bitter nature of a loved one's passage;
especially in the loss of a child that is simply out of order.
I also am hopeful of the deeper understanding you have of the metaphysical
planes giving you the greatest comfort. I too am working toward the deeper
understanding and greater awareness to our life's meaning and purpose.
With Sincere Loving Wishes Always
Laura S. (an Admirer of you and Laura Silva:o).
(775-828-3734)
mrs. hadsell,
im so very sorry to hear of your loss.
you have made so many people happy over the years
i wish you well and i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers
your friend, jason j.
Hello Helen,
We may not know eachother as Human friends BUT as Soul friends there is a thread that connects us. Your words are profound and heart felt..I want to offer my condolences to you and your family.. Your son my not be here in human form But his LIGHT
will be with you until you meet again
Giulia Miuccio
In Harry Potter (a run-away success of a series of books by J. K. Rawlings) there are dark beings called "de-mentors" that suck the joy and happiness out of the living, leaving them a writhing mass of misery! The only anti-dote to such an attack by these beings - as Harry Potter, a student-Wizard is taught by his teacher at his school, is to hold on to the most radiant and happy memories you have from your past. This done successfully, will produce a Petronus Charm which drives the dementors away! The point of this is that anyone who can hold on to the glorious and most radiant happy moments they spent with others (in Harry's case, it was with his loving parents), will have the divine light confer upon them a charmed eternal life full of happiness driving away any attacks from dark emotions, negativity, or sorrow! Your son is indeed lucky that he has such memories and experiences of a wonderful mother, family and circle of friends whose company he enjoyed!
I often teach: "Appreciation and Gratitude form the Holy Grail in which the Divine Grace can be held or savored!" The graceful way in which you expressed your appreciation and gratitude of the glorious and heart-warming experiences with your son touches all of us who read your blog - even those who never knew your son Chris when he was alive!
As the people the world over offer their heart-felt condolences, I hope you and your family can find comfort in the fact that Chris's life continues to touch people in positive ways through your writings, sharing and your glorious and radiant memories - even after he left the body behind! You have blessed the world with your presence and now the Universe reciprocates! One to Many and Many to One, the blessings continue to flow - reminding us that L.I.F.E. is but an abbreviation - for "Love Is For Ever"!
Love,
Mahesh Koppula
Ogden, UT, USA
Dear Helene,
Please accept my condolences on the early departure of your son.
I am one of your readers. I bought your book and videos and they were full of hope and in a way I think your son was lucky to have received such a spiritual education from you and may have been more prepared than most people when leaving for the next world.
Best regards,
Hubert
Hi Helene ,
Your son is now with the master maker of mankind , WoW , can you emagine how happy he is right now , to bring beauty back to life again in Gods Kingdom .
have peace of mind ...you will see him again
My dearest sympathy to you and family helene... God bless XO
Helene, Whenever I think Of the people I have lost that I loved dearly iI alwasys say to myself "May the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of GOD rest in peace" My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I have read one of your books and I feel that you are wonderful and kind person. Its very strange how you can get vibes from someone just reading about them. Again I am so sorry for your lose.
My condolences on your lost. I am glad that you both knew the truth of soul survival and can continue to be in contact.
I LOVE YOU,
Cheryl Medlin
Helen,
My prayers and bright loving light go out to you and yours. Thanks for sharing the story of Chris and the sparklers and reminding me that a "look" in the eyes can convey a timeless happy thought no matter the age or place. This will help me as I take care of my dying father and mother whom has cancer, and struggle to care for my three marvelous children so that I can share these eternal moments of bliss and fun. It's like the "sparklers of life"...THANKS!!
Dear Helene,
We trust that your son is in comfort and peace. And we
pray that he is a reward preceding you, and a treasure
in store for you.
Helen, I know what it feels like to lose a loved one, It will always hurt but every day the hurt will become less replaced by all the wonderful memories you have shared. You will always mourn him but you will always have your memories. I am sorry for your loss and hope that by looking at all the good and fun times yu shared with him it will ease your pain a little. May God bless you.
My mother use to say'...'You are only as happy as your children are'' or'' It'll work if we work it''
When you talked about your wonderful family and your son , I thought of mine.......I guess as Gregg Braden would say , (paraphrase)'' We really are one, and we are here to love and help each other.''
Thank you for sharing those unique and wonderful characteristics about your son, and thank you for the direction you always give.
Sincerely, Linda Matte
Hello Helen
I don't know you personally but I do know that you have experienced a huge loss; no matter what one believes about the future, losing a loved one is very sad. My sympathies.
Wayne
My thoughts are with you.
Dear Helene--no parent is supposed to outlive their children-I am so sorry for your loss. I know he is with God now and you will be reunited when the time comes for you to cross over. I saw my brother die when I was two and we were in a car wreck. I went into a coma for two weeks and I believe that I visited him in heaven then because all my life I have known that there is a heaven. I can't tell you how I know this but I do. GOD be with you in this time of sorrow and know that one day you will see him again.
Helene I am so Very sorry for your loss. I love that poem I did not die.
May God bless you and grant you peace.
May our Compassionate Mother bring you peace in your time of grief
Helene,
You have given so much to us, just as your son has given so much to you. Thank you for your gift. Be thankful for his.
Helen I'm so sorry for your loss ! Love and Prayers to you and your family at this difficult time.
If you are a christian remember that God gives us the best, therefore He requires the best form us. I know you love him, but God loves him more than you. He is gone to rest with his eternal father, and may his soul rest in perfect peace amen.
Helene, I am so sorry for your loss. How wonderful you had the time you had with your son Chris. We can tell from your shared memories yours was a very special relationship. Peace and Love until the end of our days.
Im so sorry for your loss. Please except my condolences.
Help is here the angels are watching over you and your son be strong and thank for all you have done many prayers and thougts for you and your love ones
Hi Helene, Blessings to you and your family. I too lost my son and was brought up in Catholic education by nuns! Although I can look back now with better understanding of their teachings, it did not really make sense to me as it was portrayed then. Since finding my own spiritual path I have come to understand more. Although I know that my son is in my future and not in my past and death as such does not exist, it is still surprisingly very painful to miss their physical presence. God Bless to him and your family.
Yvonne Hawkes
Beloved Helene,
You already know this, I know.
There is no death, only Victory. "I AM the Open Door that no man can shut into the Powerhouse of the Universe," from whence we came and from whence we return.
So called death is only an opportunity for rest and reattunement to the Higher faculties of the Inner Light of ones soul's personal journey-- their own Divine Plan. Chris is free now of all Earthly pain, turmoil,and discord. He resides now in a world full of peace, harmony, and perfection of the Divine Plan.
He knows how privileged he was to have lived in an earthly temporary home filled with love, joy, compassion, and the excitement of life; a life well lived!
He became a fun loving gladiator of his world, who brought such happiness and joy to others through his creation and carpentry work- much like Jesus's path.
You taught him well Helene. GOD Bless him, you, and your family in your celebration of his life and Victory.
It is hard to know what to say at the death of a loved one . But I am so sorry. May God be with you at this time.
Dear Helene, I am so sorry to hear about your son. At a time like this is when your faith is really tested. I lost my husband to cancer in 1999 he was only 49. Two years ago I lost my sister on Boxing day she suffered a heart attack while buying dog shampoo. In April of the same year I brought my Mom home to die in front of our big picture window on my sofa, she asked me to do this so of course that was her last wish she also died of cancer. I have difficulty with the rest of my family for this decision they feel she may have lasted longer in hospital, I just did as she asked. God Bless you and you will get thru this. just think of your son and you'll feel him with you.
May Peace and Blessings be upon your family and may the kindoms of the father of many mansions open to up to him for all eternality.
I am sorry for your loss
Thank you for sharing your beautiful relationship with Chris. My deepest condolences.
Many prayers ,blessings and loving energy to your entire family.
Dear Helene
I am deeply saddend by you great loss.
I am a mother too and understand the depth of love you have for you son. Please take some comfort in knowing that there all many people out here who send out loving support to you and your family
Lisa Depascall (England)
Thinking of you and your loss with love. sammy
Good Morning Helen I so sorry for the lost of your son Chris, I just want to express my deepest sympathy for you and your family. No words can express what you are going through these pass few days and for awhile the few weeks. I just wanted to provide workds of encouragement to be strong and to remember his wonderfull life as an example for one to live. My prayers are with you and your family. I encourage you to be strong and to pray which I know you do quite often. __"Father God, bless my friend in whatever it is that you know she may be needing this day: May their be full of your peace, prosperity, and power as they seek to have a closer relationship with you. Amen." Be well your new found friend Rose M. Sweet Grass.
DEEPEST CONDOLENCES FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR SON...GOD BE WITH YOU.
EVE/SAN DIEGO CA
My deepest condolences for your recent loss. May God continue to bless and keep you now an forever, amen.
DEEPEST CONDOLENCES ON THE LOSS OF YOUR SON..GOD BE WITH YOU..
Dear Helene, I don't know how I received this e-mail but I'm impressed with you and your son. I can't say I know what you're going through because I've been blessed not to have to go through this as yet and I hope I never have to, but on any given day you never know. Both of you seem like very strong people. So sorry for your loss.
Dear Helene,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are an amazing and remarkable woman. You have inspired me in so many ways. It is clear that you had a good relationship with your son and for that I am sure you are both truly grateful. You have made a difference in the lives of so many people and I wish for you and your family only blessings and peace.
Hello Helene,
So sorry to hear of your son's passing.
Am sending you Love and Light.
Feeling sure Chris will always be with you,
in many ways.
Lots of Love to you
Kaz
so sorry for your loss...be strong for his memory is intertwined in your life...live on , love on, lucy
I hope and pray that you will find peace . With God, all things are possible. put it in his capable hands. You will feel his love all around you, and you find peace.
I am sorry for you lost I know how it feels,I have son 3 1/2 years old his mom brole up with me and I see him once a week for one hour , and I lost my sister 40 days ago,I am at your son age and I can feel your hurt
I am so sorry for you're loss Helene.There are no words to make you feel better... I am sure you're son is in a beautiful peaceful place. You are a wonderful person!
Dear Helene,
Losing a loved one is very, very difficult under any circumstance.
But knowing that Chris has gone to a much better place and will be there waiting for you when it is your time to Find a way or make it will be such a comfort to you.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this emotional time,
Lots of Love and Light,
James
Helene;
I am so sorry for your loss. The good Lord has much bigger plans for your son that will only be helpful to all of us!
Love & Peace
I am so very sorry, my thoughts are with you and your family. As a mother I know what hurt is caused when something happens to your children, but to loose a child no matter what age is a hurt beyond reason. There is always a thought that when you are a mother you should always be the one that leaves this earth before your children, not watch the pain of them leaving you first. I hope all your memories are loving and help you through your grief.
Hello Helene. I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. No mother, should have to experience this and yet we do. It is something I've never truely gotten over and something no amount of money or winnings could ever make better. We have to remember and believe however, that all life is a gift from GOD and that the Lord has a purpose for everything. I'm not certain of what that is sometimes but I am certainly in no position to question Him. The life we have here is only temporary and we all hope that we done the Lord's work to deserve the more rewarding life after our passing from here. I'm certain that your son is with Him, and remember that one day we will join our sons who are with the Lord, and we will rejoice. I believe this and so must you. God Bless Sincerely, Anna
Dear Helene and family, what a lovely story of celebration you gave of your son's life. The beautiful poem at the end of the first page I dare to mis-quote ' ...do not cry ...for he did not die...' , he just moved to the next room.
With Love and Light,
Gwyneth
Dearest Helene,
Please accept my sincerest sympathies on the passing of your son Chris. I will send him love and light on his journey to the other side. Blessings and comfort to you and your family in this difficult time. He will always be with you because the connection you had was strong. My prayers are with you at this time.
Namaste, Liz
Dear Helen
I am sorry for your lost . I can feel what you feel has I lost my husban on 12-May- 2009 12 month ago. I will pray for you to stay strong. May Good Bless you my friend.
Helene,
My deepest heartfelt sorrow for you at this time in life. It is not easy to lose your children.
May God bless and keep always.
Joyce
Im sorry for the feelings you have right at this time.God gives us the angles but he let us know how long we can keep them.when God needs them back in heaven then they have to go.Thank him for the time you had with your angle
Helene, Thank you so much for this article. Your continued teaching of wisdom and knowledge of this Earthly life and Eternal life are extremely comforting and I have no doubt that you will always have communication with your son as he forges on in his new journey. May God Bless and Keep you forever in His Loving embrace. Sincerely, Lynn
Dear Helene, I am so sorry for your lost. May your mind and body filled with peace and comfort. May you find relaxation in knowing that your son may be gone in physical form, but he is always here with you in spirit and in love, just rest and feel that loving presence.
I am so sorry for your loss Helene. It sounds like your son was a special and wonderful man. In this time of sorrow it is difficult to find words that bring comfort because the pain is so fresh and deep. It sounds as though you shared a very special relationship and communication with your son. Again, I am so sorry for your loss.
DEAR HELENE, SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR GREAT LOSS. A MOTHER NEVER EXPECTS TO OUTLIVE ONE OF THIER CHILDREN. MAY GOD BLESS YOU..
YOUR FRIEND LYNN
My sincerest condolences on your loss. May you be blessed through this time.
Dearest Helene Hadsell,
Rest assured you will hold your son in your arms once again. He will smile his sweet smile just for you and this memory of loss will be as the wind. Our prayers are with you.
Tonya Stembridge
HELENE, I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. PLEASE FEEL THE HUGS I AM SENDING EVERYDAY.
VIOLET
THANKS SO MUCH HELENE FOR ALL YOUR GREAT CONTRIBUTIONS - im sure your son is very proud to have a mum like you who cares about alot of people.
Helene, I am saddened by your loss. God Bless you and your family. Marina
Dear Helene,
I send you my love during this time, like you said he is only a thought away. He is, was, and will forever be. I love you! God bless.
my deepest condolences...helene
A beautiful and comforting message
Helene so sorry for your loss.,just know he is with god now and at peace.,Bless you and your Family.
DEAR HELENE -
CHRIS THANKS YOU FOR THE LIFE HE LIVED AND LOVED.
FOR THE FRIENDS HE HAD AROUND HIM.
AND MOST OF ALL THE BLESSINGS OF YOUR LOVE.
Blessings to you and your family. We know you know Chris is free in flight and vibrating in love loudly. We send much love. Your presense and wisdom are an inspiration!
Helene,
I have ordered book from you 2 years ago and had your own sigature on it, so maybe it was mailed out by Chris? Anway, I am sending my heartfelt gratitude and condosolence to you! My tradtions teach me what you conveyed in your book--there is no death, only a change in dimensions! I wish you and family all the BEST.
Sincerely, Rain
Gob?
Helene,
Thank you for sharing your son's life with us in your brief description above. It sounds like you and he had a special relationship and I know it goes beyond this dimension. Many Blessings to both of you. I know even with our deep knowing of our spiritual selves, we miss those of our loved ones who move on. My heartfelt love to you on the loss of your son. He's preparing a great game of Canasta to play with you.
DEAR HELENE: IM SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR SON ! I BELIEVE GOD IS WITH HIM NOW AND HE WITH GOD . I NOW REALISE OVER MANY YEARS OF LOSS THAT GOD CALLS THESE PEOPLE FOR A HIGHER PURPOSE IN HEAVEN . IT DOESNT HELP THE PAIN BUT TO KNOW WE WILL SEE OUR LOVED ONES AGAIN ONE DAY IS THE BEST THOUGHT OF LIFE TO COME AFTER DEATH .
May your memories be many and your pain few. Chris will always be near you day and night. Rest Well!
Dear Yvonne,
This is a time to give back to Helene- not to draw on her resources and ask for worldly goods for yourself.
Please try to be compassionate in your next e-mail to her, and send her your love and sympathy on the passing over of her son.
She taught YOU what to do to create wealth.... now you need to take responsibility for yourself and create your own lottery win with your incredible energy.
God Bless you Precious One!. Enjoy your ride.
Dear Helene, Family, Friends, & ALL,
I am deeply saddened to hear about your son's demise. I know that the pain in your chest is unbearable. Try to remember that he is free of physical pain now and he is in a much better beautiful place. Thank you for everything you do Helene! My families prayers are with you- as always.
Tiffanie
Helene I am so sorry for your loss I know that God will comfort you in these hard times my prayers go out to you and your family. GOD BLESS
I am sorry for your loss, but remember Chris is in a wonderful place. Sometimes I think I can not wait to be able to go to that wonderful place, but it is not my time to go. I have many loved ones on the "other side" that I want to be with. I know that they are here with me, I just wish I knew how to communicate better, since all my talks with them are one sided. God bless you, Helen!
Helene, My deepest condolences to you and your family. I have done some studying as to what happens,when a spirit[soul] leaves the body. He is in a very happy,good place right now. He will make contact with you. My precious aunt did shortly after passing on. I am sure he is smiling down on you at this very moment.However,I am truly sorry for your loss.
So sorry for your lost. God is with you and also with him. We will pray for you and your family.
Helene, You and your son have a special connection that will always be remembered in your hearts. I'm a parent of three and I can't imagine what you are going through. You are in my prayers. I thank you for your book and tapes in helping me & others, please don't change. Sincerely, Dana in Pennsylvania
Dear Helene, I believe your a beautiful loving soul and any time spent with such a person
can only be a blessing. Chris was lucky he spent a life time calling that person mom.
May god bless you and your family,for always blessing us with your presence.
Thank You!
I send my prayers of comfort and compassion.
Helene,
I offer you the strength that God off ers at this time.
Dear Helen,
Please accept my sympathies at the lost of your Son. As a Mother myself, my heart goes to you. I Bless you with peace.
Kelly
Helene, our sincere condolences and prayers to you and family for the loss of your son Chris. I too have a son named Chris and recently loss my best friend. I also wanted to share some possible insight. It appears to me as though this world has been delivering a number of wonderful souls from this world lately. It is becoming a bit difficult for others not to see it, and there appears to be a growing sense of something coming upon this world, that many of us may not be ready to handle or endure. Helene, do you have any insights along these lines?
i too have lost a precious son after a long illness every day i have wonderfull memories of him. life is but a collection of memories of our loved ones. so happy memories for you.peace and love margaret deskin
Dear Helene and Family,
Sorry for your loss, but your son is no longer in pain. He is with his father.
It must be hard, I know parents should go first.
Thank You, for all that you do every day for us.
Thank you Helene for such a beautiful and wise outlook.
My heart and thoughts are with you, Nina
Dear Helene,
I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Scott
dear, great lady i'am so sorry for son and your loss i'am saden you have my deepest simpty you love him but god love him to
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my mother and several aunts to cancer. Peace be with you.
Sandra
It is sad when the world is losing all the beautiful souls, fortunately his crossing over was peaceful.
my condolences to the family,
Love & Light
Azrahn
I am so sorry for your loss Helene. I can't even imagine what you are feeling. I pray you feel the Peace that stands beside you to offer you comfort and the reminder that Life is eternal. Deborah
Dear Helen,sorry that you will not have your son around this earthly plain,but if there is any comfort in this words i hope and pray, your son is still with you around you, any time you really need him or any time you just want to have a chat, he has left his earthly body now no more in pain. Living with god has all kinds of neat benefits. plus you have a great connection with god. for us left behind it's harder to let go.losing a child is the hardest lesson any body can go threw. So i will send many blessing to you, and you family, for peace love and tranquility.God bless calista laluna
DEAR HELEN,
VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSE. MY CONDOLENCES
My Prayers are with you and your family
God be with you
So sorry for your loss.
I lost my husband five years ago. He still comes in for a visit. I still miss him and there is a void in my life. I can't imagion losing one of my daughters. My prayers are with you. I have not read any of your books but what I have seen on my computer about winning has given me self confindence. Thank you for being there and helping so many people. I know you are a strong person and you have a grand son that will always be near. Be thankful for the time God gave him to you. He says he just loans us our children.Thank you for being there. Johnnie Victoria Gitchel.
I am sorry for your lost.
Peace be with you in your hour of grief. I wish you had a happier Mothers Day.
Helene,
Though I have not met you in the flesh, I feel I know you so well through your book & your writings. Please know, as you have seen from all the loving comments on this site, that you are loved & thought of so highly. May your son always be with you in spirit, just as my dad shows his love to me from time to time, comforting me & showing that the other side is just a whisper away. Many loving thoughts are with you, now & always, Ms. Hadsell. Your friend that you just haven't physically met yet. -Joy Flury-Brown
Helene,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. May God Bless all of you.
RIP you wonderful soul, my thoughts are with you Helene and your family
So sorry for your loss. What a great demonstration of how to handle such difficult times. You are a powerful woman, so connected and aware! I have no doubt you'll be hearing from him again.
Namaste, Carol
HELENE,
SO SORRY TO HEAR OF THE LOSS OF YOUR SON CRIS,MAYHE BE LOVINGLY IN YOUR
THOUGHTS AND JUST A HEART BEAT AWAY FROM YOURS.
Helene, know that I embrace you and your family in love and prayer. Peace to you...
Helen, there is nothing anybody can say about your loss, but your loss is God's gain.
God Bless you.
Prayers to you and your family. I am so sorry you are going through this.
Beth Stpehens
Dear Helene
word probaly cant say how sad you must feel at this time of your loss.please remember that his sprit is with god and that he will remember him in his new world.I pray for your comfort and to your family at this sad time
Please accept my condolences to you and your family,on the loss of your sonChris
God bless you and your's.
dearest helene i offer my condolences with the sincearest simpathy on the loss of your son ,death is never easy nor is it the end ,althoe we are sad we are also at a certen level of peace too, knowing your son's suffering has come to an end may you be at a certen level of comfort & peace . sincearily a friend
I am so very sorry for your loss! I pray that you will find comfort in your time of sadness. God Bless you.
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I know it is hard to imagine out-living your children, but it seems all too real and happening more and more. One of my oldest sisters has already out-lived two of her three sons. I have lost five of my close family members, two sisters and a brother, just over the past two years. The sister I just lost last May 13th was the glue to our family since our parents deaths in 1962 & 1963. But I gain comfort in knowing they are in a much better place. It is our loss but their gain.
I pray God's comfort and guidance to you and your family.
Dear Helene,
I am sorry to hear this new. I am writing to express deep sorrow for your loss.
May God bless the soul. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. You have shared all the wonderful moments with us and now we are sharing the burden of this great grief with you. May God bless you.
!!!!!!!! .......May ALL Beings be Content .... !!!!!!!
With love and sympathy,
Jitendra Patel
1233 South Broadway Street
Sulphur Springs,Texas 75482
Dear Helene,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. Of course, he is not gone but in another portion of life. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences of him. You are an amazing woman and I wish I could know you personally. My life has been enriched by the knowledge of life that you have shared.
Many blessings to you and your family,
Phyllis
I am so sorry for your loss. And may God bless you and your family and hold you tightly to him in this time.
Sorry for your loss...... My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Helene,
Sending You and Chris Love Energy...
Sondra
Helene,
I am so sorry for your loss......
~Shannon~
Dear Helene,
Words will not take the pain away, but hopefully you are at peace with his absence. God bless you and may God keep you. He tends to take the good young. God belss and take care. Holly Messinese
My deepest sorry's for you'r lost but I give you the biggest blessing that you know that you'r going to see your son and every one that you know who your going to see again. I only hope that I have that great same chance to meet my passed family members. Please keep up your posative spirit as you are. If I had lots and lots of money I would try to invest on trying to find a cure even though scientist are trying to. My older sister has passed also due to the enemy cancer and it was not a sight to see, She was single with 6 children and only two years older then me at the time of her death she was only 42 years old then it seemed like one after another of my family member have been living this world I have more to tell but that's enough of me so please stay strong to go on so take care and GOD BLESS YOU!. Your friend Joe
Dear hellene,
that was a lovely story about your son, Im so sorry for your loss, but as you know he hasn,t left you he just changed his address. connie oppman
I'm so sorry for your loss and may God Bless you and you family.
Helene, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God will carry you and your family through this time of loss and sorrow. Just keep looking up for His mighty grace and mercy.
Wishing you all the strength,love and support a mother needs when going through the worst thing a mother can. I am so sorry for your loss. May you find peace in knowing that he is peaceful.Condolences,
Pam Bradley
I am very sorry to hear of your lost, I hope you will find comfort in the thought that he will no more suffer pain in this life.
This Lady has just lost her son and you are asking her to help you win the lottery! what kind of person are you? How about you give condolences instead of thinking of yourself. You should be ashamed of yourself.
Dear Helene! I strongly beleive your son's soul left for better life. It is so difficult to comprehend such a loss, but it is a blessing that Chris didn't have to suffer long, isn't it? May God's face shine on both of you! With love, Elena.
Hello Helene, I am so sorry to hear the loss of your dear family and I know what he feels without the one who is close to you, my cousin die at age 30 and it was very painful and hope god will bring you peace to your mind
I am truly sorry for your loss, I lost my mom to cancer on 3/28 so I do understand your pain to a degree. Yes they are both in a better place with no more suffering.
Helene, I am so sorry for your loss and also touched by your story. I'm sure you and your son will remain able to communicate now that he has passed on, your closeness is evident and his beautiful soul will be missed. Deepest condolences to you and your whole family.
My thougts are with you and my condolences.
May time heal all wounds
Gary
Sorry for your loss.
I use your "Unitolagy" every day. And reread your notebook telling about our family often.
My love is especially with you now.
May the Lord bring you all peace at this difficult time
My condolences to you dear Helen, your son will continue to inspire you all from the other side just like he did while being on this side of the screen.
warmly
Milka
Helene;
I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathy goes
out to you. Children should not leave this world before their parents.
I too have felt this loss. God bless you.
Hello Helene,
Somebody in England is praying for you, and your family at this desperately sad time.
With Heartfelt love,
Diane
I am very sorry to hear of this news. Glory be to god and you to the fact that the God due not make no mistake. That God may be with you though this time of need. May he heal your heart while you are going this time. Remember that God knows best even when we do not.I love you and wish that you leave everything in the hands of god. Be blessed and stay bless in the name of God. I hope that you find comfort in these words, because love is like a candle it keep burning to the end of time. May my love and words find you comfort though my god. I love you and may god always love you and keep you in hands. Please know that I morn with you though this time but at the same time I know in my heart that everything will be alright in the morning as the sun rise, the sun must also set. I love you my dear always .
christofer jones
Hi, helene!
My heart and prayer with you and your family.
May God Bless You!!!
Dear Helene: He may have left his body, but he will always be with you, maybe even closer to you than before. He is a beautiful soul who will help to connect you even closer to the higher power and "The Source". DrRouya@gmail.com
so sorry for your lost. garnett
I am very sorry to hear of this news. Glory be to god and you to the fact that the God due not make no mistake. That God may be with you though this time of need. May he heal your heart while you are going this time. Remember that God knows best even when we do not.I love you and wish that you leave everything in the hands of god. Be blessed and stay bless in the name of God. I hope that you find comfort in these words, because love is like a candle it keep burning to the end of time. May my love and words find you comfort though my god. I love you and may god always love you and keep you in hands. Please know that I morn with you though this time but at the same time I know in my heart that everything will be alright in the morning as the sun rise, the sun must also set. I love you my dear always .
Dear Helene,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Your son sounds like a good man, and I'm sure he will find a way to contact you. Bright Blessings and Light, Diana Quinn
Helen, sorry for your loss. I pray that God Almighty in His mercies will console you.
Helen:
Thank you for your inspiring story and all of your wonderful work that has touched us deeply.
I send you and your family blessings for the passing of your son. With such great telepathy gifts between you - I feel you will be communicating with him again. Thank you for my wonderful life profile you made me. I cherish it and its wisdom.
My heart goes out to you and yours. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dear Helene, It is so hard to endure such a loss. But, if you try to think of being in God's presents and the entense Love Happiness and Joy that God gives in his Heaven and, that your son won't have to endure suffering anymore' it may lighten the sorrow in your hart. But still I cry! Love Sincerely Diana
Dearest Helene, I listened to your beautiful inspirational interview last night while driving to Asheville from Myrtle Beach; your words always touch me regardless of the numerous times I'm heard them.... so I was surprised to receive the unwelcome email revealing your loss. I am shocked to learn of your son's death so soon after his diagnosis. Thank you for blessing us with stories of your family in your books and interviews. You were there for your son always... as you're here for all of us... always. through your teachings. May God continue to give you the strength to do what you must do. Please know that we send our love to you... always.
Maria Fletcher
Dear Helene,
So sorry to hear of the loss of your son. May you feel the love from everyone you have inspired and helped over the years.
Love and best wishes, Roberta.
'I'm sorry for your loss' is such an inadequate phrase. Yet what else can one say? I truly am sorry for the loss of your son and hope you find comfort in the good memories you have of him. Please know that people care very much and all of our prayers are with you.
Helene,
You have my sincere condolences on the loss of your son.
I want you to know that I am with you and your son in my thoughts and prayers.
Elizabeth
Dear Helene,
Now you have another precious angel watching over you, as you go about your own angelic works. Hugs to you.
My name is Patricia Stile and although we do not know each other it is a terrible shock when you lose someone,and It is harder when it is your child,and no matter how old they get they will always be you child!So I am offering you my Condolences and know if your son was saved he will be with the Lord Almighty God.May God be with you and his Family!
God Bless You,
Sincerly
Patricia Stile
My condolences on your loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Celebrate his life! May he be joyful eternally.
Energy never dies...you will be with him again and yes he is just a thought away.....My dog Sam left two years ago and he is always there when i need him and want to see him..he comes to me in my dreams and sends me messages all the time...they are just a thought away. God bless you Helen for coming to planet earth and God bless Chris....7th dimension eh?
Dear Helene
I was sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved son.
He is in Gods arms now out of harms way.
Losing a child no matter how old is a hard thing to bear
know that people will thing of you and wish you and your all the best.
Arlene
Hello Helen,
I am so sorry that your son left to a new destination. I know how it feels when a loved one seems to journey off before we do, however he is in complete wellness now. I have a quote that I hope you like, it can mean many things but I thought of your son when I read it. "Only by contending with challenges that seem to be beyond your strength to handle at the moment you can grow more surely towards the stars" and that he did. He is very happy now. Be blessed
Cindy Kelley (Alaska)
I am sorry to hear of you son's passing, I've had friends and family die
of this disease and the problem is their is a cure for it but it's about money and that is the bottom line. If we as the public took time to do our research on health,environment and energy but we are brought up
to trust the professional, and Specialist and this is what we get a loss
of a loved one so dear to us. I am really sorry for this because these
people are so close and you would always think they will be their for you
when you need them or just want to talk.
Hoping for the best for you.
One may Leave,But,Never Dies..
We all wish in this life we can stay
Lord knows we all pray for a long life, a long
day
But God has a reason why, and when he says it's
time to leave, yet not die, even though e he might leave others here to cry
Then Why?
For he has work for those who have left us way way up in the sky
as he had on earth, and you sigh!
Still asking the question why?why? why?
Because God knows truthfully, love ones never
die,for they will always be remembered through
our hearts eye,
So don't fret, knowing that your love one although
gone, Yet truthfully never dies...
So, Helene, don't cry for your son is now wrap
in the arms, of our god, the most high!
Much Admiration ...
author Brenda!
I am so sorry to hear of your great loss. I hope and believe that he will still communicate with you. Again so very sorry. Nat
Dear Helene:
I am sorry that you will be missing your son. But the hurt only last for a little while and then you start to think of the good times and the funny things that you shared. Your mind wonders to what is he doing right now. But where he is at, there is no more sickiness or pain. Just increditable peace and joy. You will see him again. I pray for your peace at this time and the joy to go through. Blessings to you and your family....diane
Dear Helene,
You have helped so many people, so may you feel all our love in return. You and your family are in my prayers. Hugs, Dana
Helene,
My heart is heavy knowing of your recent loss. I lost my son suddenly on 2/27/2006. He was 21. I trust your son is in a better place,free from the illness that caused his passing. A book I have read several times, " When Bad Things Happen to Good People" has brought a sence of comfort for me and my family. When we loose a loved one the emptiness and grief overwhelms us at times with uncontrollable emotion. Please trust in knowing when you think of him, he will always be right there next to you and in your heart.
My Deepest Heart felt Sorrow for you and family.
Mike Porelle
Hi Elena,
I'm so sorry to hear your loss. May god bless you and your family.
Dear Helene
my love and prayers are with you, until you meet with your son again I hope all your memories are filled with love and peace.
Dear helene. i am so sorry for your lose he is with god now i will pray for him, and i am really sorry. god bless. carmen
Dear Helene,
Am so deeply sorry to read about the passing on, of your son.My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.I pray God Almighty comforts you at every turn.Stay in peace and be blessed.
Kind wishes,
Chukwuka
Dearest Helen,
I am sorry for your lost. Our thoughts and prayers are with you
With Love,
Julia
Sorry to hear about the loss of your son. God will give you peace with all the wonderful memories you have shared with your son. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
I would like to express my sorrow for the temperary lose of your dear son. Death according to the bible whipes the slate clean of all sin. Also your son will be reserected,yes you will see him again & that's a promis from Jehovah him self !!!!!!
My prayers and heart go out to you and your Loved Ones.XOXO
Dear Helene,
Intellectually, we understand that the loss experienced is only the the loss of the dilapidated sugar bowl. The real treasure, the sugar, has just been moved to a more perfect bowl, in a more beautiful setting. A change of address, having moved up to the nicest neighborhood in the area. We are blessed to be able to feel/live in their sweet sugar.
I believe that in those moments when you need a hand to hold, or a sugar to hug, that the goodness of God will continuously bring you the comfort and love.
Humbly,
-L
Helene, my deepest condolence to your family, my prayers and thoughts are with you.
Love will get you through the tough time, God bless your family!
I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. May the LORD comfort you continously.
Please accept my heartfelt condolensces for your loss, and yet... Kahill Gibran wrote:____Your children are not your children__They are the sons and daughters of life's longing for itself__They come through you but not from you__And though they are with you__Yet they belong not to you__You may give them your love, but not their thoughts__For they have their own thoughts__You may house their bodies, but not their souls__For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,__Which you cannot visit,__Not even in your dreams__You may strive to be like them__But seek not to make them like you__For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.__You are the bows from which your children as living __Arrows are sent forth__The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,__And he bends you with his might__That his arrows may go swift and far,__Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness__For even as he loves the arrow that flies__So he loves the bow that is stable.____He lived his life with Love, Passion and Joy and for that one can only be grateful that he achieved what he wanted to achieve. Remember him as he became a great man.__In Love, light, Laughter - Namaste__
DEAR HELEN SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS IT IS A GREAT BLESSING THAT YOUR CONSCIOUSNESS IS HIGHER THAN TO REMAIN FOREVER STUCK IN GRIEF..MANY OF US HAVE NOT REACHED THAT AWARENESS AS OF YET. BLESSINGS TO YOU AND ALL THSE WHO SUFFER THIS GREAT LOSS.
Dear Helene,
I want to send my sympathy and love to you. The loss of a loved one, especially one of your
children is so hard, but you can look forward to the celebration when you and your loved ones meet again.
Love to you, the family and friends.
Stan Weinberg
Dear Helene,
I'm so sorry for your loss. May God bring you great comfort in the days ahead.
Janice
Dear Helene,
At this time of sorry there are no words that can truly comfort you in this time of great loss. Please know that I am truly sorry to hear of Christopher's passing and will keep both of you in my prayers.
Helene I am so sorry, I cant imagine the pain of losing a child and my heart breaks for you and your family. You are all in my prayers and let god lead you through this, he will not leave you side. All my love
Dear Helene:
Though we never met or conversed. I know your son Chris was a wonderful man as he was your son and you are a kind Dear Sole and continues to help many people the ways that you are to.. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family., I too lost my Mother just over 3 years ago,She too fought a short but courageous battle with that disease
Take Care
Dennis B
Dear Helen, I'm sorry hear of your loss of a beloved son. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
With love and sympathy
Dear Helene: I just read the sad message from Kate Roberts. I am so sorry to hear that you lost your beloved child. In the eyes of a Mom, a son or a daughter is always a child, no matter how old he or she is. A parent always believes that thier child will never preceed the parent in death. Sometimes life does not seem fair. My husband also died from cancer. It is such a nasty disease that knows no age or gender limits. God Bless you. With Sincere Sympathy. Louise
I am terribly sorry for your lose. I hope that you can recover from giref soon. My blessing to yhou!
We are very sorry to hear about your son. MAy God keep him close to his heart - and guide you with ,love ,compassion and healing. We will be praying for you.
Dearest Helene: There is so much "Mother Love" in your memory of the relationship with your son that this passing is a gift to all of us. It assures us that every moment we have together is precious; that all interactions are meaningful and memorable;and that the loving energy is multiplied, going with the person crossing, and remaining also with the rest of us on this side of the veil. Thank you for this sharing. Blessed be you, your ancestors and all your coming generations.
Chief Luisah Teish
So sorry for your loss, your son is in our prayers & with our lord. I too lost a husband& a aunt also to cancer.They all at peace now, THEIR IS NO MORE PAIN. A message from someone I lost& loved very much.God Bless You Helen.
Dear Helene,
God must have needed an extra Angel to help him in heaven and may you heart know that your son is with God and he is also with you. My prayers are with you and
the Lord will watch over you. Stella
May healing speed bless you, your family and friends!
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
i am sorry about helens passing she is with the Lord now and i am sure she awaits there for her friends and family regards and God bless her family monique
Many prayers,and feelings of empathy are extended to you. You were blessed to have each other.May the love of God,and friends or other relatives help you to accept this,knowing you will be meeting again in Glory!
Very Sorry to hear of your loss. I pray the lord will comfort you and give you peace.
My deepest sympathy goes out to you from my heart
I'm so very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Marion
Helene,
I send you a bunch of smiles from my heart to help lighten yours. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Know that others share in your grief. We love you.
Bless you and yours,
Frannie
I never met you or your son but,not long ago I heard about your
book. I began reading about your luck entering contests and was
amazed. Today I read about your son passing yesterday due to cancer. First let me say that you know better than anyone how to stay positive so I know you can do it. I send my heartfelt condolences.I think the mystery of this life and our families
will be revealed to us one day. Until then we will leave our trust in God's hands. After reading the story about you and your son, I
could not believe how much I have in commen with you. We both went to cathiolic schools and were taught by nuns. We both have a sixth sense or esp with family. I think you have alot of positive strength in Spirit that will bring you through this. As I read your story I felt a kindred spirit with you both. God Bless you and let his light shine upon your face.
I know you have the power with in you to stay strong. It is very had to lost a son because you fell you should go before them. But he was called home & he will always be with you in your heart & mind.
Deepest Regards
Denise
Sorry to hear of your loss Helene....
When we lose somone it makes a empty hole that is never filled, or as we might think. I have learned that we fill that whole with happy memories. When that hole is full we empty it each day with a smile. I wish you many smiles.
Sorry to hear about your son.we love here on earth but their is a great love waiting for us. FAY miller.
may the Lord Bless you and give you the strength thru this time of sorrow and happiness.
Dear Helene,
May the Holiest of Holies, the most High of the universe, strengthen and bless you and your family during this grevious time. May you find comfort in knowing joy cometh in the morning. There is no real death, only transference of energy. My you and yours find peace and comfort.
Very sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you.
Blessed was he to have been born in a wonderful family. Blessed are you, Helena, to have brought light during his pilgrimage here. Frances
Sorry for her death, what a great lost. May her soul rest in peace.
God Bless, E
Helene,
Heartfelt sympathy! I have just starting reading about you and your work and already feel close to you and can only imagine what you may be feeling and going though. May there be peace in your mind and heart. From my readings I can tell you have touched and helped so many souls and will continue to do so. As a physician I see this transition a lot - it is always a unique experience! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!
God Bless!
May the loss of a loved one soon be replaced by the joy of knowing a guardian angel,
Blessings to you, your family and loved ones.
Gods love has shone through Chris s life that has left you all the beautiful memories.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of grief.
Dear Helene, my heart and soul feels your grief , I pray for you and your family that God will instill a peace within you, knowing that Chris is in Heaven and at peace. You both had so many beautiful and happy memories together , that will always comfort you when you think of him. He will always be your morning Star shinging down so bright and you will never be out of his sight. May Peace and Love be with you and your Family . Betty Reynolds
Sorry for your lost. Wishing your son peace and love.
Dearest Helene,
Deep peace of the running waves to you.
Deep peace of the flowing air to you.
Deep peace of the smiling stars to you.
Deep peace of the quiet earth to you.
Deep peace of the watching shepherds to you.
Deep peace of the Son of Peace to you.
An Old Gaelic Prayer
May God's love surround you,
Diane
Dear Helene,
I have no language to express my sorrow learning the news of your son. I am very sad.
So far I believe he was surrounded by some enlightened personality like you, Gold Burt and Laura Silva and so on. I strongly believe you all have very powerful healing power and you tried your best also. Yet what is lotted, you have to accept it.
My deep condolence attends you.
With best regards,
Dearest Helene,
I do know what it feels like losing a love one as I had lost my brother and youngest sister 3 yrs ago and last year my beloved mom pass on peacefully at the age of 85. It's ok to grieve and allow the emotions to go through and soon there's a feeling of peace and calm that takes over only if we allow it. We are all bless in many ways and our love ones are in a better place. I love you.
Dear Helen,
My heart goes to you at this time of sorrow. I am inspired by your power, wisdom, and beauty of you spirit. I would like to hug you, and console you, but I know that the one who would get stronger as an effect of it, is me - not you : ) My love goes to you...
Hello Helene
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that the Lord Jesus is with you. I will pray for you all God Bless you always.
Ann
i am sorry for your loss but i know you will see him again in heaven your son may be your loss, but he is gods gain. juanita
Dear Helene, I heard from Kate about your beloved son passed away. I am deeply sorry on the bottom of my heart about the sad news that you must endure at this difficult timing to be faced as a mother of him. Please, accept my deep condolences and expressions of comfort especially for you and family members. We do still believe that your son's soul heir the kingdom of heaven (Eternal life), this perfect place that there is a peaceful, no more worry about in life. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. With love and respect. Amen !
A Time For Everything
There is a time for everything
And a season for every activity under heaven
A time to be born and a time to die
A time to dance and a time to mourn
A time to tear and a time to ................
Ecclesiastes 03/02
As you have made us aware that we are aware of our destiny. Your son Chris was making plans for his departure. I have lost many in my family, and I know the loss is hard, however you of all people know he is near, and I am sure he will always be near you. A mothers love is like no other. I am sure you will always feel him close as you were in this life. God Bless you and keep your spirits high.
I am so sorry for your lost.
Rita
Helene,
So sorry for your loss.
Very Sorry for your lost, May god help thru this difficult time. And let you know that he is with god now.
Helene ,my thughts and prayers for your loss .how the lives touch our souls and leave .
May God give you strnengh and angels watch over you while you grieve for your loss.
Umerath
Dear Helene at a time such as this know that you are loved and charished. May our prayers and the strength of our positive energy field carry you through the rough waters but know we our here for you now as you have been there for so many over the years. You and Chris are truly an example of the pay it forward philosiphy. So let us be your cushion, your helping hand, we are here for you.
Helene, I am so vey sorry to hear of your loss. Take comfort in knowing that you'll meet again one day and though you can't see him, he'll be there. God bless.
Helene, I am sadden to hear about your recent loss. I know it is very hard to loose love ones, but I do know God, will continue to watch over you in this time of great despair and
sorrow. So, cling to his everlasting love and know that your beloved son is resting in God's Heavens. And, one day all of God's children will be together again. That is, in the Great Big Sky sitting at the Lord's Table. May God Bless, you and your immediate family.
With Deep Sympathy,
A Friend In Christ,
Jackie
Dear Helene, I have a very close relationship with both of my sons as you did with Chris and always will. My heart goes out to you and I send you comfort from my heart to yours. May the intense pain go away as quickly as possible and may peace be with you. i know he is in a wonderful peaceful place and will be around you.
Love and Blessings,
Shelley
My deepest condolences Helene. I am so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for everything you do for everyone of us. Thank you for this blog and thank you for being a part of our lives in this lifetime. We all send you our best thoughts and love.
Ivan from Japan
HELENE so sorry to hear about your loss as I can relate to the big C curse word as I lost my common-law wife to it back in September of last year and my father just beat throat cancer and passed a few days later of a massive stroke in February of this year! please believe me when I tell you I'm glad he was able to have peace of some kind about it as it sounds like he was surrounded by good family and good friends unlike the cruel people that my common-law had for so called family! They pulled off some insanely cruel things with myself and her not long before she passed! She was a very special woman that meant a lot to a lot of good friends,as it sounds like your son was as well. I'm pleased to hear that he at least had the chance to deal with things and make his own decisions,Jeanette was not so fortunate because of those people! At least you won't have to go through the terrible grief that I'm going through! I hope for you that it makes things a little easier on the peace of mind part of things for you! I can't imagine what it's like to lose a son but I do know what it's like to lose the love of your life and a father within six months of each other so my deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family and all those that knew and loved your son Sincerely Ron Lewis
there are no words that i can say that will ease the pain one feels to have a son snatched so early in life .Know that when God writes ended the angels write" just begun" My thoughts and prayers to you and your family at this time.Antonella.
My deepest sympathy goes out to you,...dear Helene, I too have felt the pains of lose,..because of cancer and it is an awful thing for anyone to go through,..May God give you comfort in your hour of grief,...God bless..peace and prayers,..May the Great Spirit stir the sands of love beneath your feet daily, and may the river of memories flow past the window of your soul .....
My sincere condolences for the passing away of your son Chris. I will pray for the eternal repose of his soul in one of the Holy Masses I attend regularly.
God bless you Helene
There's an old saying,"cry when they come into this world, rejoice when they leave it because they are going to a better place". RIP Helene's Son.
Remember Helene he's not dead he's just resting until you join him. He's alright and in time he will let you know that. God continue to bless you and your family. Praise GOD.
Signed,
Delores M. Williams
houstongermanshepard@yahoo.com
Dear Helene, i am so sorry for the loss of your son, you must have been a great comfort to each other, my thoughts are with you and your family x
I am sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers.
We are very sorry for your loss. And hope you are able to find peace in your time of loss. God Bless You and your Son.
I just learned of your lost! Please know my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. God Bless and be with you.
Gayle
sorry to hear about your lost may god continue to bless you and your family.
Hi i'm very sorry about your loss. I will keep u and and your family in my prayers,may God bless and be with u all. From sharon hill
I'm very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Sorry to hear about your son.
My deepest condolences.
Helene, please accept my heartfelt condolences for the passing of your son. Thank you for being such a giving person. You have in many ways enriched my being. Tony Bare
dear Helene:my deepest condolences to you and your family.i can understand,as i lost my brother last June,but i know he's at peace with the angels.may god bless and keep you
for all you've done ,now and forever.
CLIFT STEVENS
Dear Helene,
I am truly sorry for your loss,I live that experience every day.
God Bless
rosaria
May the Joy and the Peace when a Butterfly flies near, of knowing your Fine Carpenter SON is close by to whisper in your ear. Even if it is a message that I LOVE YOU! Linda/1Heart
That is just fine, I am just a messanger of the Heart!
HELEN HADSELL:
SOME DAYS ARE LONG AND SOME DAYS ARE SHORT,GOD ONLY MADE US A LOAN ON
OUR FAMILYS... WE CAN NOT QUESTION THAT OF HIS WORK ,IN TIME HE WILL LET US
SEE OF HIS WORK ... MAY YOUR HEART BE SOFTER ....EVERY WORD BE KINDER
GOD WALK IN YOUR FAMILYS LIFE AT THIS TIME.... WITH ALL BLESSING TO THE
HADSELL FAMILY.... MRS. HADSELL YOU HAVE MY SINCERE CONDOLENCES....
Helene my thoughts are with you at this challenging time. You have tought us what we hve learnt to know and guided us in these learning. I hope that God will give you strength and meaning in this loose.
MUCH, MUCH LOVE AND COMPASSION
Dearest Helene~
I know how you feel, my son passed away June 9th 2007. I had 31 years with him, what a blessing.
We had the same connection as you and your son, we could talk to one and other even from another room, doors closed. I hope yoyur connection stays with you even though he has passed on, my son and I have our moments still.
I will keep you in my thoughts,
Debi Aberle
dearest helene, my thoughts and prayers go out to you with much love
I'm very sorry for your loss.
i am so sorry to hear of your loss, dear Helene. I'm sure he was a wonderful son and a great human being and if its any small consolation, i'm sure Jesus will welcome him soon into his heavenly realm.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Helene, I am sorry for your loss and understand. My mother passed away last summer. We are both so lucky to have had such great people in our lives. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. It is a great reminder of how we touch and effect each other in even the smallest of ways. God Bless you and comfort you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sending love,
Kathy
Helen, accept my deep condolences and expressions of sympathy for your dear son. He is in a peaceful place. I ask God to help you and ease your pain. I will pray for your son. let him rest in peace.
Please dear Helene, do accept my deepest condolences, with most respect. Thank you for all understanding and strength that you presented to your children, and all of us, God's sons and daughters. Sincerely, John Orange.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. He was far too young to have left us this soon. My prayers are with you and your family during this time. It is always harder on the people left behind. Know that he is happy, healthy and safe, no longer suffering and you will see him again when it is your time. Much love to you and your family.
Dear Helene you will have peace in your memories for that you already know. My empathy is with you.
Catherine Roberts
Helene, I want to offer you sympathy and condolances. After reading your post, I think that you have a great view of things. PEACE.
Precious Helene,
It's sad when those we love leave the party earlier than we wish. But, I'll share with you...when our bodies quit on us we're glad to shed them for the next adventure.
Watch the skies for signs from your son. My Dad started painting double rainbows all over the sky to let us know how happy he was to be out of that worn out clay and how much fun he was having flying all over the place. He also sent brilliant golden sunbursts out of a stormy, pewter sky that would illuminate only one tree with golden fire.
Sometimes we sense him riding shotgun in the car with us. Our son saw him. My husband had gotten Marsh up at
4 a.m. to see the perseids meteor shower. When they came back in the house, Marsh pointed at the bookshelves and said "there's Big Bear" (kids pet name for him) My husband said, "where?" Marsh said he's standing right there. My husband said, "what's he doing?" Marsh said, "he's smiling and waving".
So watch for signs, Precious Helene. He will want you to know he's around, whole, healthy and happy.
Love,
Rena
Blessed you’re to have received such a precious gift, to learn, teach and to be exposed to a unique life perspective. Morn sparingly therefore, taking solace in all the material traces of himself that your son has leaved. For amid your tears a subtle truth is revealed: all that has changed is Chris’ packaging.
Yet sweet it had to have been, to for him to hear the MASTER saying, “welcome home
Chris.” So when the flesh in rancor demands grief, be comforted in the truth of his transitioning.
Like all of humanity he was housed in a package with an expiry date on it. Still the enlightened knows the difference between the gift and its packaging. You see the gift is everlasting. It is slated to be re-packaged at the master’s whim for its many callings. Only the package can deteriorate and die never what is within
pray that GOD will comfort you in this, your time of grief.
Dearest Helene, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Please accept my sincerest condolence of sorrow. I know what it's like to lose someone, for lost my mother coming up on four years ago,and I still have not adjusted to the concept that I no longer have her to talk to.God bless you. stuart
Helene, I am so sorry for the loss of your son. It is harder to accept when children pass on before their parents. Especially when they haven't fully experienced life to the fullest yet. Know that he is always with you. Though that void is always with you, as I'm sure you already know from the loss of your husband. I do know that God is always there when you call on him, he never abandons us, even though we may think he does. I speak from experience on that!!!!! My heartfelt sympathy and prayers are with you and your family. Thank you for all your wisdom and insight. Know that you ARE and have made a difference in everyones hearts and lives. God Bless
Dear Helen , I am thinking of you,very sorry about your loss.
With deep love and respect. Laila.
Not sure how this will help but it's neat you guys were in the same where and the same when so you could know each other at the same time. Since that was a one in a google shot that you guys were together and he was who he was both of you will be able to stay in touch with each other forever. Love never dies even though a person's three dimentional body self might.
Dear Helene
I want to say how sorry I am for your loss
Such a wonderful gift and blessing to have this relationship with your son.
Thank you for sharing such a tender and loving story with us.
i am sorry for your loss.i to lost a loved one to cancer,and know how you feel.again,sorry for your loss and may god bless you.
I'm sorry for your lost and may the lord bless you and your family in this grieving time. stay strong! love and blessing. Keen Cobb
I am truly sorry for your loss,it has to be really hard to lose your child no matter the age ...
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. It is difficult to release a loved one when his journey on this planet is completed, but we must remember that his journey consists of many stops on many planes/planets and this was just one. I'm sure he will be in contact with you frequently as you, too, continue your journey on this plane. May his life continue to inspire you as you continue to share yourself with those of us still learning how to navigate through our lives on this planet.
Blessings and love,
Donna Davis
I am very sorry for your loss.
Ludie Quinn
Dear Helene My deepest sympathy to you for the loss of your son, Chris. My love and prayer go out to you and your family, and everyone that knew and loved him. Grace Vasquez
Your story is very touching. I'm sure you miss your loved one and I deeply feel your hurt. I will keep you in my prayers.
so sorry for yor lost i know how it is and how it feels
With all the things that I have come to know about this life and the after life it has really eased my thoughts on life and death. Still it doesnt make it any easier to deal with the fact that your loved ones will be missed in this life when they go. No matter what you have come to know about healing you also cant change when someone has made up thier mind about when its time to go. I wish you well and you have my most sincere condolances.....
When my daughter died in her 50's I found that grief turned to gratitude for our time together. Like you, I have treasured memories. Her father long ago lost a dear friend and I asked him how he handled a loss like that. He said, "I still think of him with the same warm feelings." Your poem is a keeper, would like to know the author. Reminds me of "Invictus" by Henley, which has inspired me for most of my 94 years:
"I thank whatever gods there be for my indomitable soul..."
Dear Helene, I am so sorry to hear about your lost. May the blessings and mercy of God be upon you and your family. We must always remember everyone has a little rain in their forcast every now and then, for God is no respecter of persons. I, too, lost my oldest daughter in 2000. So I understand how you feel. But keep your hope and faith in Almighty God, and He will surely bring you through.
Joyce
may his soul rest in peace.
Helene, Just a note to say , I am thinking of you at this time...Wishing you lots of love, blessings and comfort..It is good you have such a wonderful relationship with your son that will go on and on...love,Catharine
hi helene
my name is Julien Toha I am one your customer and fan. I am very very sorry for your loss .
may the pace of god that surpasses all undestanding guide you through this difficult moment. yours sincerely
Julien
Hello Helen, I am very, very sorry for your lost. I know that he's in good hands with the "Lord Jesus Christ". My husband and I lost our daughter when she was only eight years old, and we had to give it over to the Lord, because we could not handle it alone. Although you never get over it, but still you have the "Lord Jesus Christ" for comfort.
Love Marie
Helene, I heard of your loss the first thing that came to me were the very words that you had wrote me in a letter: Spiritual progress springs from adverstiy. May God bless you and your family.
My dearest Helen- I am terribly sorry to hear of the lost of your son- We all know there is a better place but we are never ready to let fo of our loved ones- You have some precious memories and I am sure that prayers will give you comfort-
You are a dear lady and you will be in my thoughts and in my prayers-
My God Bless You and give you strength and peace.
Frank
Helene,
So sorry to hear of your lost. Remember in your heart he is and will always be with you.. Prayers are given for you and your family.
My heart goes out to you at a time of your great loss.
"If need be" what gracious words that a God of Love saw to be absolutely necessary, Oh! what a pillow to lay thy weary head. Rejoyce in knowing that he will no longer suffur the ills of the human body, know that he is safely home and at peace with his Creator. I send you all my love, Light and Peace may they always be with you. joaney
Dear Helene,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time in your life. I was so sad to hear about your loss.
Bobbie in FL
I am very sorry to learn of the death of your son. My prayers and positive energy are heading your way, Edrie
Dear Helene,
I am so sorry for your loss,please know that your son is in a better place. His memory will still live on. I will definetly pray for you and your familly as you make your way back and remember to place all your trials and tribulations in the hands of the Lord for he will provide and give incredible strength to carry on. Again my sincere condolences and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
I was so sorry to here of your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
I'm very sorry for your loss, my condolences for you and your family, god bless the soul of your son and bless you and your family.
Ines
Dear Helene,my prayers and condolence on the loss of your son.
Helen.. I was so sorry to hear about your loss.. But really it isnt a loss, It is a new journey. One we all will take , when our time comes. It still hurts us, but I guess that is normal for awhile. Just talk to him daily and he will hear you and know you still think about him and will love him until you are with him again in heaven. God bless you and your family.. Beth
my sincerest sympathies on the loss of you beloved son.
Dear Helene , With my very deepest heart felt sympathy for the loss of your beautiful boy.I wish you peace, and comfort at this most difficult time. with love to you and your family, Ellie
MY DEAREST I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST, BUT KEEP THE FATE MAY GOD BLESS HIS LITTLE SOUL
I'm sorry to hear that your son passed away. May God be with u and your family in a time of need. God bless.
May God be with u in a time of need.
i am sorry for your your loss .I am sure he is in heaven looking down on you watching over you: As you were watching over him growing up. Memories are the only thing that we have when we loose someone ; Tap in to those memories .
dear helene -
as someone who's just come through the fire of chemotherapy a month ago, i can feel your son's pain. as a mother, i can imagine yours. i wish you love and peace for your loss.
love,
ameena
Dear Helene,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May God Bless You. May you enjoy the many precious memories of him that you hold in your heart.
With Love and Sympathy,
E.
im sorry for your loss, accept my deepest condolences.
Helene, He won`t leave you..as long as your 'being together' knows you...Peace and Love, ...
Dear Helene,
You and your son Chris are both so wise in your understanding of the way of life, as you both have realized that there is no death, just a stepping beyong the physical. I send you my condolences that he had to leave so soon, but it sounds like you richly enjoyed your time here together, and that's all that matters...and you'll always have the love.......
Heartfelt wishes to you,
Alison Reynolds
Dear Helene,
I'm so sorry for your great loss. Please accept my sincere condolences. You and your son share an amazing connection... and I know his spirit will remain always with you. May you find peace and comfort in the love and memories you've shared and the knowledge that you will again be together.
My dearest Helene, I know that no matter what we all say to confort you, only you knows your pain. I have lost two sisters and a mother to cancer I myself am a servivor found it just in time. Thank God we now know that they have only left their physical bodies and are awaiting us totally healthy and happy. For that I am at peace as I know that you are.
with all my love, Lucy from Puerto Rico
HELLO HELEN, DEATH IS ALWAYS HARDEST ON THOSE LEFT BEHIND. MAY GOD BUFFET YOU AS YOU SORROW. REMEMBER YOUR SON HAS ONLY STEPPED OUT OF THIS WORLD INTO THE NEXT. ONLY GOD KNOWS FOR SHURE WHAT AWAITS HIM. PEACE AND LOVE TO YOU AND YOUR SON WHO HAS BEGUN A NEW JOURNEY. MIKE
M dearest Helene,I am sorry to learn of the passing of your son .I take this time to offer my sincere condolences to you and your family.may God be your confort in this ,your time of sorrow
Hello Ms. Helen I am praying for God's comfort for you and your family during this time of grief. My Pastor told us to stop using the term lost after a person graduates to their eternal life. He said anything lost is gone not to be seen again but when our loved ones leave and we live according to God's word ,we will see them again. God bless and comfort you.
Hello Helen , I am sorry for your loss.Your son is with God in a better place where there will be no more pain. May his gentle soul rest in peace with our Lord Jesus Christ. My heart goes towards you and your family. May God richly bless and console you in Jesus Christ name, Amen!
I am so sorry for your loss. God is with you. May God continue to bless you.
Dear Helene, my heart goes out to you, you have wonderful memories to share in and your son is with you at all times. Much love, Marina
Helen:
May you find comfort in view of the fact that the LORD, still reigns on High, especially in this your difficult moment of your beloved Son's passing! May Jesus Christ, give him a restful peace; and joy to the living family members!
God's blessings are with you!
Dear Mrs Hadsell.....I am so sorry for your lost ..I resently lost a very dear member of my family to cancer...It is very hard...My condolences to all the family..You are in our thoughts and prayer. Sincerly Haideh.
Dear Helene, I am so sorry for your lost.
Le
Helene,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and may your sorrow be filled with happy memories very soon.
Cathy Neal
My thought's and prayers are with you, dearest Helene.God is always with you.
just remember jesus said today you will be with me in paridise . god bless you and your familey. johnny
Dear Helene, I am so sorry about your son. Just hang in there, the time is the Best healer and will help you to soothe your pain. Xo.
sorry to hear of your loose just know that you will be in our prayers for severeal days for your comfort an according to what he said that it was time to go he knows that God was waiting for him God bless you
My condolences. Love & blessings to you and your family.
I am soooooo sorry for your loss of your precious son.I pray God gives you and
your family strength you need now.
Leesa
helene im sorry for your loss may god bless you and your family and be the joy in your hearts forever michalene
Dearest Helene, My heart goes out to you cause I trulyknow what you're going through, I lost my Beautiful Daughter 3 years ago, I still cry every day, Ican feel your pain, she just turned 36, and i still ask God, why didn't you take me with her, I have nothing to live for anymore, I am alone and lonely and slowly killinf myself, they say stress is the biggest killer there is, I feel some days I truly cant take the pain anymore, so my Dear Helele, you have my deepest sympathy and love to go on, not like me, I am too weak, you are strong and good.
May the good lord in Heaven grant him peace and may strenght be yours in prayer
Helene, I'm so sorry for your loss.
Stella
Your beautiful serenity is a blessed lesson to us all, Dearest Helene. I know your sweet, supportive son, Chris is now welcomed into that Spiritual Family in the Seventh Dimension, as his "work" and play on this plane came to its end. I look forward to the day when we humans no longer refer to such a glorious transition as a "loss" -- and learn to look, as you do, beyond the veil to those magnificent, eternal and infinite horizons. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you, for all that you have given through your wise and wonderous insights. A humble student, Camille
Dear Helene Im sorry for loss of you beloved son, but Im also know that you knowv deep
in your hart that your son is with you always, because our soul never dies the souls that are loved do not know of the forgetulness or say god bye. (mendy)
I'm sorry for your loss, to you and your family may you be surrounded by angels in your time of pain, Chris is at peace, may you find that too. love to your family
i feel for you, and believe me, i understand, i have been dealing with a dying fiance' for a long time. I realize that my sorrow is just for myself, because he will no longer feel pain, but i know how hard it is to imagine life without them. I have concluded that for life to continue i must leave behind that which is painful, and dwell on the pleasures of life.Death is but an end to that which no longer brings pleasure, it changes pain to peace. Know that the good in this is how many people love and support you.
Helen-My condolences to you and your family for the loss of your son, Chris. May God give you strength until you meet again. Love Kim
My prayers and thoughts are with you.Nancy
sorry to for your lost
Dear Helene,
I am very sorry for your loss. As you have taught me, He's not gone, he's just not physically here, but that doesn't always make it easier for us here.
I am joyful that he was able to accomplish his higher purpose here. And I send warm loving energy, to assist with this adjustment.
Peace,
Lillian
I am very very sorry for your loss. hugs to you.
THIS IS THE ONLY TRUTH WE CAN SAY WITH CERTAINITY ' ONE WHO HAS COME INTO THIS WORLD HAS TO LEAVE ONE DAY WITH THE LAW OF KARMA DETERMING HIS EXIT DATE'. MAY THE DEPARTED SOUL REST IN PEACE.
Dear Helene,
May you and your family find peace and blessing as you adjust to Chris's transition.....
Tan SM
May God Bless you and Keep you, He is at Peace and always with you as you already know. I lost my mother to colon cancer, She too had some of the gifts you speak of. I miss her but I know she is with me. I will keep you in my prayers
Dear Helene,
The Love you give to all is known all around. The love you gave to your son is keep within and will never die. Rest a sure, the body is just a keeper but his soul lives on. Know that when you think of him he is thinking of you. Smile and know that he is smiling with you.
Be at peace,
Evon Banks , Maryland
Mrs. Hadsell, I'm so sorry for your loss, but relieved for your son that he has "finished the race." You - and your son and your family - will be remembered especially in my prayers.
i was dead
i came alive
i was tears
i became laughter
all because of love
when it arrived
my temporal life
from then on
changed to eternal
Helene,
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my grandma a year ago to cancer and the thing that brought me comfort was knowing that wherever she was, she was happy and not in pain. If you look carefully and pay attention, you'll notice your son "visiting" you. Sometimes it's very subtle, but know he's there, just as my grandma is.
dear helene,
i am so sorry for the lost of your son. i pray GOD will bring you peace and love.
i am extending my condolences to you and the family.
GOD bless everyone. edita
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son...I pray for your strength...God must have had another plan for him....Remember the good times.....
I am so sorry for your loss. May peace and God's love be with you and your family.
I was sad to hear of this, & I'm sorry for your loss.
helen even in your pain dont forget he is watching you and loving you and one day you will have a happy reunion with your son the angels are with him and you
Helene,
You know much better than I the Seventh dimension which is ever present in our lives - that if we only "allow" the flow of consciousness to speak with us - there Chris is, ever present and manifesting himself just the way the you enjoy seeing him & speaking with him. I speak with my loved ones and do my best to "allow" them into my heart & mind enough to listen to what they have to see.
They have told me that they are just as alive and just as real as we are but living at a higher vibratrional rate and that all that we have to do is set aside our fear-filters and they will show up because they have never left. You are loved beyond measure and you are here to help us to develop a greater understanding that "There" & "Here" are in fact one & the same in spirit/mind/body/soul.
Namaste'
Sterling Michaels
Helene I am so sorry for your loss and can only offer you thoughts of strength when the moments come of your private weakness. You have been the pillow of strength for everyone that reads your story and unknowingly you have given people hope.Such hope. You don't have to be so strong all the time,I feel your loss and I can only imagine your pain. He must have been truly wonderful! I love you and will see your son when I return to my heavenly family as we all will.
Sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. You and your son had a wonderful relationship. The bond of mother and son is a wonderful thing. Chris knew you were a great mom whom loved him dearly. He is your guardian angel.
Please accept my condolonces at this time. My prayers are extended to you and your family at this time of grief. May God give you Peace and continue to bless you.
Helene:
what you have told us is telling us that your heart and mind knows that your son is in true peace, and Chris may not be physically there, but in spirit, he is everywhere with you. I want to wish you the best as this transition takes place, and please know that Chris is always with you.
mrs helen i am so sorry to here about your son death,I understant what your going thru ,I lost my oldest child at the age of 16years old ,My Prayers are with you & your family .The Lord is my light &my salvation whom shall I fear?The Lord is my strengthof my life:ofwhom shall i be afarid.PSALM 27
Thank you for sharing your thoughts about your son.
Helene,
I am so sorry for the loss of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I can't imagne lossing my parent's or my husband. I don't know if I could bare with it. I will keep you in my prayers day by day.
Myriam
Dear Helene,
May God wrap your son in His Loving Embrace (for eternity).
Thank you for sharing with all of us at this difficult time. You are "special", and I appreciate all of your encouragements and sound advice you've offered me over the last year since I first learned of you
I pray that God's Peace and Comfort envelop you and your family at this time, especially.
Sincerely,
Jeff
SO VERY SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR SONS PASSING....MAY GOD COMFORT YOU EACH DAY.
I grieve for you losing a loved one in the flesh... but rejoice in peace for you know that he is not far. He is with the ONE who is in all and who is ALL. ..you know the truth... he is with you as with everyone.
MY SISTER ROXANNA PASSED AWAY IN 1994 BUT BEFORE SHE LEFT US SHE WROTE THIS TO BE ON HER CARD THAT GIVEN OUT AS YOU PAY YOUR RESPECT............
I HAVE NOW ASCENDED
WITH WINGS OF LOVE
SOARING HIGH TO THE HEAVENS ABOVE
TEARS WILL FALL
AND HEARTS WILL SING
AS I TAKE MY JOURNEY
INTO THE REALM OF THE UNKNOWN
CLOSE YOUR EYES AND LOOK INSIDE
I AM STILL HERE
ONLY NOW I'M IN YOUR HEARTS
WITH THE EVERLASTING LOVE FROM GOD.
WRITTEN BY ROXANNA M. COOKE EL-QUHIR
Dear Helene, I also lost a Loved one very suddenly with cancer so I understand the pain and grief but just know that all of us that you have helped are all circled around you giving you our Strength , Love and Prayers to help you through this time of loss. Just remember we all love you and your family and are keeping you in our prayers.
apachekarma66
Dawn
Dear Helene-
Sorry for your loss. Happy for your good memories.
With Love,
Ciaran
I was saddened to here about your loss may god open up his arms and welcome him in and watch over him until you canbe with him again. you will be in my thoughts .
Helen I know is dificult to say good bye to a son but you had the privilege to have a son and enjoy beutiful moments with him, keep in your hearth and mind all the time you share with him.
My condolences are with you.
Victoria
Dear Helene,
So sorry for your loss. May you and your family find comfort in being together.
Dear Helen:
So sorry for your lost. Only mothers who have lost a child/children understrand the pain & grief you are now experiencing. I have always wish that I would die before my children because I feel that I have lived my life and it is now their turn to make a life for themselves.
However in my situation, I have changed my mind. I would rather my three angels die before me, then I would be peacefully accept death knowing they are in the arms of our heavenly father. I say this because all of my children are autistic and, there is no one in the world I can really depend on to care for them as me and my husband do.
My condolences to you and your loved ones. Although I don't know you personally, I remember logging on to your website once before. God's Peace to you and yours.
I just got the message, sorry for the delay in responding. I'm sure that his years on earth with you were more than delightful and fullfilling. I am sure that he is in a better place with no pain to worry about. Keep your head high and think of only good thoughts about him. He will never leave your heart. Mary Williams
I JUST READ ABOUT YOUR SON AND I WOULD LIKE TO TELL YOU .YOU HAVE MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES I ALSO LOST A SON HE WAS ONLY 6 AND A DRUG ADDICT HIT HIM AND TOOK OFF SO I KNOW HOW HARD IT IS THERE IS NOT A DAY THAT GOES BV THAT I DONT THINK IF NY BELOVED PHILIP AND THAT WAS OVER30 YEARS AGO BUT IT DOES GET A LITTLE EAISER ANYWAY YOU ARE IN MY PRAYS RISE MEYERS
Good morning Helene
Sounds like your son was a wonderful person on Earth. A good servant to God and his Children (servant is a compliment).
We will remember him with honer and love.
Soon we will all be together again, so this separation is only for a short while.
In the meantime we can take your sons example and try to live a worthy life.
May God keep your son safe, and bless you with peace and comfort, in Jesus name.
I'm so so sorry to hear about your loss.
God keeps us in his arms during our time of sorrow and helps us through our grieveing process. As the words of "William Wordsworth" says
"Glory in the flower"
What though the radiance which was once so bright
Be now for ever taken from my sight
Though nothing can bring back the hour
Of splendour in the grass, of glory in the flower
We will grieve not, rather find
Strength in what remains behind;
In the primal sympathy
Which having been must ever be;
In the soothing thought that spring
Out of human suffering;
In the faith that looks through death
In years that bring the philosophic mind.
May god keep you in his arms through this sad time in youf life.
Helen,
I am so very sorry to learn of the loss of your dear son, Chris. I know he is at peace with God and the Heavenly Angels. Take care and my Jesus comfort you and see you thru.